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Love & Life, Sorted
A Cambridge PhD sociologist's intimate, no-BS talk about love, family and everything in between.
Join Dr. Sandy To, marriage and family sociologist and author of the acclaimed book, China’s Leftover Women: Late Marriage among Professional Women and its Consequences (Routledge), featured in TIME, CNN, BBC, and more, for no-BS conversations about the stuff that really matters: dating as a high-powered career woman, finding a marriage partner over 30, who's doing the work in the marriage, what's the catch on motherhood and fertility etc.
Whether you're single and skeptical, married and mystified, or parenting through chaos...Let's sort life, one chat at a time!
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Love & Life, Sorted
Women Breadwinners | Navigating Role Reversal, Challenges, and Relationship Success
In this eye-opening episode of Love and Life Sorted, Dr. Sandy To dives deep into the rise of women as primary breadwinners in modern relationships. Explore the challenges of gender role reversal, including resentment, housework imbalances, and emasculation fears. Learn about "deviance neutralization techniques" from classic sociology research, real-life stories of boss wives, and the difference between involuntary and voluntary breadwinners (aka, Satisficers). Discover practical advice for couples to foster egalitarianism, boost appreciation, and maintain harmony when traditional roles flip. Whether you're a high-earning woman, a stay-at-home husband, or navigating dual-income dynamics, this episode offers insights to strengthen your relationship.
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🔑Key Topics:
- Traditional vs. modern gender roles in relationships and marriages
- Challenges faced by women breadwinners: Exhaustion, paid work-housework double bind, and partner resentment
- Deviance neutralization techniques: Overcompensating through femininity, compliments, evasion, and role (re-)segregation
- Involuntary breadwinners: Dealing with unexpected role reversals due to layoffs or career shifts
- Voluntary breadwinners (Satisficers): Egalitarianism over economics
- Advice for men in lesser-earner roles: Developing personal skills and passions to overcome insecurities
- Real-life examples from interviews and sociology studies (e.g., Atkinson and Boles on “WASPs”: “Wives As Senior Partners")
- Tips for couples: Verbal appreciation, negotiation, and making the most of reversed roles
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