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 After a divorce or separation, how can I start getting my finances back on track? 

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After a divorce or separation, how can I start getting my finances back on track? Divorce or separation can bring significant changes both emotionally and financially. When a relationship ends, people often need to adjust to new financial circumstances, which may involve changes to income, living arrangements, and financial responsibilities. If you're going through this kind of transition, it can help to begin by gaining a clear understanding of your current financial situation. This might involve reviewing your income, expenses, savings, and any shared financial commitments that need to be now resolved. Taking time to understand what has changed can provide a foundation for moving forward. Some people find it helpful to focus on establishing financial stability first. This may include identifying essential living costs such as housing, utilities, food, and childcare and ensuring these are prioritised. If there are financial agreements or legal arrangements involved, such as settlements or shared responsibilities, it may be helpful to seek guidance from legal or financial professionals to ensure everything is clearly understood. Adjusting to a new financial situation can take time, and it's common for people to go through a period of uncertainty as they establish new routines. It's also important to recognise the emotional impact of separation. Financial decisions are often closely linked with personal circumstances, and feelings such as stress, sadness, or uncertainty can affect how people approach financial planning. Speaking with a counsellor through your EAP provider can provide a supportive space to talk through these changes and help you approach financial decisions with greater clarity and confidence. Rebuilding financial stability after a separation is a gradual process. By taking things step by step and seeking appropriate support, many people find they are able to gain a sense of control and move forward. Please note this information is intended as general guidance and should not replace financial or legal advice.