Breaking Away

In this final episode of Abandoning Cycles, we explore the last phase of the chrysalis—the moment of transformation, emergence, and embracing the person you've worked so hard to become.

After reflecting on breaking free from toxic patterns and doing the deep shadow work required for growth, we discuss what it means to step into a higher level of self-awareness. Together, we explore the connection between inner healing, the universe, and the gifts that awaken when you align with your authentic self, allowing you to experience a greater sense of purpose, peace, and spiritual elevation.

My hope is that this podcast has inspired you to discover a version of yourself you may have never realized was possible—a version rooted in healing, growth, and limitless potential.

Thank you from the bottom of my heart for listening, supporting, and growing alongside me throughout this journey. As we begin to bring Abandoning Cycles to a close, this will be my final full-length episode.

To all my light healers, light seekers, conduits, empaths, clairvoyants, messengers, and everyone walking their own path of transformation, I am sending you love, positivity, and endless light. May your journey continue to unfold with courage, wisdom, and grace.

Peace, light, and love.

Transcript

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Hi, and welcome to Abandoning Cycles. My name is Tone and I'm a spiritual holistic life coach. I want to say thank you to all my listeners. If you've been lit with me the entire time, if you've been only here for a few episodes, I appreciate you greatly. I honestly did not think or believe that this would reach any listeners as these are data downloads that I received from the universe. And whether you are a light healer, a traveler, someone searching for answers, a conduit, an empath, uh clairvoyant, whatever you may be, whatever gift you may have, it really does touch my heart that people actually, you know, listened and also resonated with this podcast. I know it's been a while since I've recorded it. I have just been stuck in my own mind about how to move forward with this. So with that being said, this will be the last full podcast episode. Uh, I will not be continuing the full podcast episodes. Um if there's information that comes through from the universe or divines or angels or spirits uh in like mini downloads, then I will upload the information, but I will no longer be having full um episodes as I will be closing out this podcast because there's just been some issues um with how my recordings have been getting across and like the clarity, which I will be trying to fix to the best of my ability as people have heard different um things, I guess you can say, nonetheless, um it was most definitely an honor being able to get this message out that has been filtered through me to the world. Um and also with that being said, because of this podcast and all the people that I have met over the last six months or so, it has inspired me to create something so much larger than this. Um and I am so grateful for the opportunity to be able to do this. But um this this episode here, this episode is all about finally coming out of the chrysalis, emergence out of the chrysalis. And when I say that, I mean that sometimes we go through certain transformations that a lot of people will never understand because maybe they're still delusional, maybe they're still, you know, limited, you know. And when I say limited, I mean keeping themselves limited, not allowing themselves to grow because of what they think, you know, will happen, what others think mostly, right? It's not necessarily what we think, it's what others would think, you know, will happen during the transformation phase when you go from your old patterns and behaviors that did not suit you, that were very toxic to new behaviors and new patterns that allow you to live a better, healthier life. That's letting go is letting go with the control and allowing to trust in something higher than yourself, trust that you are meant for just a higher path, a better path, a better life in general. And I'm not just talking about financially, because when we wish for something and pray for something, or however you know you sit and meditate, or whatever that looks like for you, most people pray for money and they pray for success, but yet when they receive it, it's not it's not utilized in the proper way. Okay, what I mean by that is you can wish for money all day, but it's the intention of what you mean to do with the money. What is where's the money going? I want money, but yet we give it away. When we ask for money, the universe is going to listen with intention. But why would the universe keep giving you money? And the money in the universe, higher power spirits believe that you're gonna hold on to this money, that you're not going to do anything, but just keep it for yourself, it's not gonna go anywhere. So, what we're really asking for is I need money so I can be able to have a better place. I need money so I can be able to have food, eat healthier. I need, you know, better financial stability so that I can be able to live a better life. And not a grandiose life where you're living, you know, way beyond your means, but to be able to correlate with whatever journey or path is meant for you as you come out of this chrysalis, as you come out of this shell of a pod, putting forth all the work that you have put through, and and if you have had an opportunity, and it doesn't have to be this process that you've gone through. If you've gone through the process of just recognizing that certain people in your life are just not good for you, not healthy for you, and you have to put a pause on that, or walk away, or step back, or whatever you had to do, and then you sat with it for long periods of time, you created as much distance as you could, then you sat in silence and sat alone, like a lot of the times, not all the times, you know, without reaching for to other friends or family for support. But you sat and contemplated about those relationships and how it relates to you and how you operate and where you're meant to go, where what you're supposed to be, and you being the higher level version of the self that you want to see, then I commend you for getting to this point today because emerging out of a pod of a chrysalis to see that new version of you is more than just a breakthrough of a spiritual awakening or you know a fresh start or whatever you want to look like for you is so much more. Some people will never let no, let's be correct, let's be realistic. Most people will never reach your level of awakening. Most people can't sit alone for more than two to four hours in silence to allow their subconscious thoughts to just flow. So if you went through the process and you can sit down and really think about the people that you're attracting, if they're healthy for you or not or or not, then congratulations. You made it, and it's so amazing when you get there, but it's also very tiring because having to process all of that which you went through, which you had to survive in relationships and toxicness, is not easy. It is very emotionally draining, which can cause you to feel physically drained at the same time. And if you still went through the emotional and physical exhaustion and still felt like it was worth it because you really want to see the higher version of yourself, then you deserve to be the higher version of yourself. If you went through the lengths of cutting out people who don't need to be in your life, and not constantly going back and forth all the time, all the time, all the time for years. No, that does not count. I mean, finally putting your foot down one day and going, you know what, I'm done. I deserve better. You need to move on. And if you reach this part of that self-awakening, spiritual awakening, to be able to reach the higher version of yourself, to come to this point right here where you can look at the situation and go, you know what? It relationships, it happened, they're stepping stones. Alright. I take accountability for what I did, you take accountability for what you did, and I recognize that we are just not meant to be friends or in a relationship or intimate partners, which is just not worth it. I'm gonna move on, we're gonna keep it cordial and take it for what it is. I've learned my lessons, I learned what I need to from here, what I want to take with me, and I'm leaving behind what I don't want to take with me to the next relationship. If you got to that level, then you're ready to tap into your your gifts and your abilities that are meant for you. And if you're a light healer, a light traveler, a light seeker, then yes, yes, you have gifts and abilities, and you may even be a fallen angel or an earth angel. That is a whole nother topic for a whole nother podcast. But at this endless journey that you've worked so hard towards at this time and searching for that pursuit of happiness or joy, let me ask you this. Are you ready to make new connections? Are you ready to take time in getting to know that new person, whoever comes into your life? I'm not saying that you have to seek out relationships, I'm not saying that you have to get on a dating app and go out there and you know search for somebody immediately. I if that's where you are, then I I say more power to you. But we're still in the process of working on ourselves, even coming out of the cocoon. And if you really are truly ready for the challenge and up for the challenge of seeing what you are truly or can be capable of, then you're not gonna rush into another relationship. Because all you're gonna do is you're gonna bring back all those cycles that you just work so hard to get out of. Because what's gonna happen is possibly what's gonna happen is you're gonna find yourself rushing into relationships, and then you start counting the red flags because now you're aware, but you're not fully aware. Well, you're ready to start working on yourself and what you're truly capable of. You're gonna run back into those same patterns and cycles, and then wonder why I keep getting the same outcome. Why do I keep getting ghosted? Why do I keep getting rejected? Because let's face it, a lot of people on this planet who have experienced any kind of stress, maybe trauma, high anxiety, has some kind of fear of abandonment or rejection. So then we jump into relationships that much harder, hoping that that person doesn't leave. But if we knew ourselves and our own self-worth, we wouldn't care if they left or not. Because the true person that belongs in our lives is going to be supportive emotionally, mentally, physically, respect all of our boundaries, our time boundaries, our financial boundaries, our spiritual boundaries, our mental boundaries, and they're not going to leave us right away without giving valid reasons or having a valid reason why they're leaving. And if they're respecting our boundaries and there's they're supporting us and we're supporting them, and we're coming to agreement, mutual agreement, then why would they leave? Remove the control, trying to control relationships because relationships are not ever meant to be controlled. Ever. Because if you're trying to control the relationship or somebody else, you're more than likely not gonna get the outcome that you're looking for. And that means that you need to do the work to sit back and think about where you want this relationship to go. Coming out of a cocoon is an adjustment. We all need time to learn this new version of ourselves, get some rest, and hail from being in the dark for so long, being in our thoughts and our souls for so long. So where we can be able to radiate joy and happiness through our energy and the light healing that we bring. And taking our time too, because maybe we punch a hole in the chrysalis and we would look through first. We look through to see if it's safe before proceeding. So maybe we stay in that chrysalis a little bit longer. It's kind of like if you went to a new place and you're trying to understand if that place is for you, how would you know if that place is for you? And if you were already stepped into a new place and you felt uncomfortable, how would you get yourself out? Taking your time, observing, observe more than action, observe more than talking, and visualizing what this breakthrough really, you know, means to you. Because the previous episode was all about you know, preparing yourself for breaking out the crystals. Now that you have it, what does that look like? Moving forward. Yes, it's a tiring process. It takes time to work on yourself, getting to know yourself, let alone getting used to this new version of yourself, and working on getting rest without feeling guilt, and without having to over overly explain to somebody else what's going on with you. Because we may not know what's going on with us. We know it must know we might know that we're tired, we're exhausted from going through this journey of having to process just so much. Just so much. Mentally, emotionally, physically. That we need time to really replenish our batteries because sitting alone by yourself without a lot of support or the right support is disheartening, is disappointing. It's training. Isolating. Giving yourself credit where credit's due and that you did the best that you can. And if you're still going through the process that you're doing the best that you can. So really sitting with yourself and asking yourself that if you are ready to attract and not chase, where does it start? It starts with knowing yourself worth, knowing what you're worth. If you know that you are wholeheartedly a good person with good morals that does things in this life and proceeds in life, just because they which just because you know that it's the right thing to do, and not because somebody tells you that it's the right thing to do, or the law tells you it's the right thing to do, but you know genuinely it's the right thing to do, and you try to make the best decisions for yourself whenever you can. And for the world, then you're worth something. People who genuinely have a good heart, or at least try to, because at this point everybody has a past, right? The past is the past. The past is the past. But if you really are genuinely a person that tries to do the right thing and does its best to do so and looks out for not just yourself, but for others too, then why put up with somebody who's toxic and treat you as if you're not worth anything at all? Hopefully you've gotten past this point. Because if you have, then you start attracting individuals but not actively seeking it. I get that question all the time of you know, I've been working on myself and I still haven't found my community, my tribe, my person. Well, you're manifesting, right? That's all it's about. We're manifesting. Or praying or meditating or whatever you associate a term with, right? It's like putting a seed on in the ground of what you would hope to happen, and you dig it back up and you hold it because you want to watch it grow. It's impossible because it needs nurture. And who's gonna nurture it? Not you, it's not your responsibility. Leave it in the ground and just see what happens. Plant seeds, leave it, keep going. Same way with your life. How do you know you're on the right path? Try different options. Don't just try one thing and go, oh yay, you know, I think this is for me, and when it doesn't go right, then there's a negative outlook after that. I don't want to try anything else. There's negativity associated with it. I don't want to do anything else. We do the same thing with people. This one didn't work. I don't want to put myself out there again. Whether it's a friend or an intimate partner or a potential partner, I don't want to do this again. Relationships or stepping stones. We learn from each one. We either have a good experience, a not too not so good experience, or a neutral experience. And then there's the extremes, of course. But you learn, you move on, you grow. This is not what I want. Okay, now you know what you don't want. Move on. We move on. But if as long as we choose to stay stagnant, and I get that too, that question of how can I move forward when I've gone through this and I feel like I'm just stuck from this relationship. Are you choosing to keep yourself stuck? Are you literally stuck because you're in a situation that requires another person to act before you can move forward? Because I'm telling you right now, most of the time it's not the latter. It's usually the first one. We choose to keep ourselves stuck in things that we don't need to be in. And if you haven't waken up to that just yet, then you're not ready. Because if you remain to keep yourself stuck in relationships and things and cycles that may be extremely toxic for you, you feel like you can't walk away from, you will never be able to tap into your journey, your path, be able to connect fully with your conduits, your spirits, your angels, your divines, universe, to tap into the abilities and gifts fully that you have. Doesn't need to be there. The control doesn't need to be there. So as we close out, remember you are a light healer. You are a conduit. You are empath. You are a clairvoyant. You are an energy light seeker, someone seeking for answers. And because you are that person, you should never forget who you are. So that the universe can work with you and you can start receiving your own data downloads. The downloads come to you every single day. But as long as we stay in cluttered minds and in relationships and cycles that we don't need to be in, that don't bring us any joy or help or don't help us at all, we will never receive those data downloads the way we should. So maybe as you travel this world, whoever you are, you may be getting messages through others that are meant specifically for you because you haven't done the work just yet fully to be able to receive the messages yourself. To you all. Take care.