Unbuttoned
Unbuttoned is a podcast about dating, masculinity, and emotional clarity.
Hosted by Dorian Levy, the show explores modern relationships without chaos, shame, or therapy speak. These are conversations for men who want connection without confusion, boundaries without hardness, and intimacy that feels steady instead of performative.
Unbuttoned is not about fixing yourself.
It’s about seeing clearly, choosing intentionally, and learning how calm can be powerful.
New conversations, said plainly.
Unbuttoned
Latest Episodes
Episode 10 : We Hate What We Were Taught To Be
Gay men survived the world telling them who they were was wrong. And some of them turned around and said the same thing to their own community. In this episode, Dorian gets into femme shaming, masc culture, drag, and the internalized homophobia...
Episode 9: If he says this on a first date… leave.
Most people don’t get hurt because they didn’t see it.They get hurt because they saw it… and stayed anyway.Those lines aren’t confusion.They’re clarity.You just have to decide if you’re going to listen to it.S...
Episode 8: The Addiction to Better
Better bodies.Better faces.More attention.One swipe away.So instead of choosing,we keep browsing.In this episode of Unbuttoned,I talk about how endless options rewired our brains,why stability feels borin...
Episode 7: Reassurance Is Not Intimacy
A lot of people don’t actually want intimacy.They want reassurance.In this episode of Unbuttoned, Dorian breaks down the difference between emotional comfort and real closeness, why reassurance gets mistaken for connection, and how ...
Episode 6: Hurt Men vs. Healed Men: The Real Divide in Our Community.
Today on UNBUTTONED, we’re getting brutally honest.Not about sexuality — but about behavior.Why do so many gay men come off as cold, judgmental, competitive, or straight-up mean?Not because they’re gay…but because they’re u...
