Therapy, Coaching & Dreams
Therapy, Coaching & Dreams is cohosted by Dr. Jim Shalley and Dr. Selden Dee Kelley III, a therapist and a coach who love talking about how inner work can help you live with more awareness, purpose and freedom.
Podcasting since 2025 • 19 episodes
Therapy, Coaching & Dreams
Latest Episodes
S1E19 When The Divine Feels Like A Conversation Within
We explore how addictive behaviors can be signals from unbalanced inner energies, how to hear what the unconscious is asking for, and why old issues resurface even after insight. We close with a grounded view of integration, spiritual connectio...
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29:00
S1E18 Midlife Without The Meltdown
We take listener questions on how to “preempt” midlife turmoil, why flexible thinking beats rumination, and what healthy self-sufficiency looks like when you still need people. Along the way we use our four-quadrant model to reframe boundaries,...
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Season 1
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Episode 18
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27:49
S1E17 Integration Over Perfection: Using Every Part Of You
We explore the STIR framework and answer a listener’s question about whether the goal is to stand in the center of all four styles, or to use each style wisely. We map how to grow in a resistant environment, when leaving is healthy, and how to ...
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Season 1
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Episode 17
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27:45
S1E16 Having Tough Conversations
We open our archive of listener questions to explore how to give honest feedback without a therapy license, how to manage triggers with self-awareness, and how parents can raise more integrated, emotionally grounded kids. We use simple tools li...
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Season 1
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Episode 16
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37:44
S1E15 STIR Crazy: Stabilizers / Transformers / Initiators / Responders
What if your stress, your arguments, and your burnout all point to one simple mismatch—using the right energy at the wrong time? We explore a Jungian-informed model of four energies—Stabilizer, Transformer, Initiator, Responder (STIR)—and show ...
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Season 1
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Episode 15
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22:44