Allan&Eve: Marriage Is Not a Game
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Allan&Eve: Marriage Is Not a Game
I Have a Problem with Cheating Pastors—Here’s Why the Church Needs to Wake Up
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Hey everybody! How you doing? Look, I had to get some things off my chest today because I am just so tired of seeing marriage treated like a game. You know how much I love you all and how much I care about the body of Christ, but we’ve got to talk about what’s happening with these pastors and church leaders who are living double lives. It breaks my heart and frankly, it makes me sick to watch men stand on the pulpit, preaching the rules to us, while secretly hiding lustful acts and cheating on their beautiful, caring wives behind the scenes.
In this episode, I’m diving deep into the total lack of accountability we're seeing in the church today. I’m calling out the tired old excuses—because no, you can’t just blame the devil or a fast woman when you get caught, and then cry crocodile tears just because your secrets finally came to light. We need to look at what God’s word actually says about cutting sin off at the root before it destroys your family and infects the whole congregation. If you've been feeling frustrated by this too, pull up a chair and let's get into the real truth.
You know one thing that bothers me the most? Marriage is not a game. Bothers me the most. And if this bothers you, please leave a comment, let me know. But when pastors are cheating on their wives, and we don't find out until like, I don't know, until the the side chick or whoever comes out and say they're about to say or reveal some dirt or somebody has something on them and then they want to come on and say, I'm sorry, or please feel bad of me, or it was the devil. No, it was you leaving things un maybe unmanaged or something. Not dying to your flesh, not speaking up, not saying things to others, not being accountable for things that you're doing behind the scenes, lustful acts that you have secretly that you're holding on to. I'm tired of these pastors that just blame it. And they stay, they stay in these positions as pastors, as elders, as leaders in the church, but don't never step down. And then like to point the blame on the devil, point the blame on the fast woman, point the blame on somebody else besides their self on stepping down and taking a leave of absent or something. It seems more and more of these pastors are just falling short in something that's pretty basic on this lust thing they have going on. And they're married, they have a wife. But they're cheating on their wife, they don't feel satisfied with what they already have. But then they want to stand on the pulpit and preach and teach to us about the rules in the Bible and what God's word is saying. Apparently, they don't feel God like that. Me, what it says in his word. If your eyes cause you sin, cut them off. Your hand, cut it off. Like cut things off in your life. They too be having these women in church and they're looking at them lustfully, but not checking these sins at the door. Like, yo, you have a problem. Get that checked out. I'm I don't I'm tired. I'm tired of these pastors falling so short with this lust issue they got going on. And they want to come and tell us when they're about to get caught, then want to scream, I mean, want to cry, oh, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry. And not sorry, I don't believe them. I don't believe them being sorry. They're sorry that they got caught and it's over. And some of these beautiful wives and these loving and caring wives end up taking these men of God back, knowing this is probably not the first time. This is just the first time they probably got caught. It's not the first time. And the wives have to put up with this. It's mostly the men in charge in some type of leadership. And the elders around them, the other people that's supposed to be holding account, they probably scared to speak up, don't want to speak up, or don't see nothing wrong with it. Don't hold people accountable. Probably because they feel like maybe they might get shunned, or maybe they might get kicked out of the church, maybe they might lose their position. Well, right is right, wrong is wrong. We need to stand up for the truth, especially in the body of Christ. Jesus would not be accepted, I mean, accepted, yeah, accepted of this behavior from these leaders and these pastors. This is disgusting on so many, on so much, so many levels, for them to be acting out this character. Oh, they want to tell people, Well, I got a word from God. You don't see the lust, the lust, demons and spirits that's swarming you, that's attacking your marriage and living in the home. Jezebel's spirit is just running wild up in there all through it. And you tell me, oh, I got a special revelation from God, and I speak to God and I talk to God. Do you, bruh? Don't seem like it to me. I want a lot of these men in God to say something before it happens or get it checked. If you see something, if you look in lustfully, say something, speak up, or I don't know, cut it off, gee. Because you got a lot of souls, a lot of people, a lot of these sheep that you're supposed to be responsible of, but you're too busy battling with demons and spreading out demons all over your congregation and your wife fighting demons in her, you know, with her um in her life. I'm just, I don't know if anybody else feels me, but I just get sick, tired of all these nasty little pastors running wild, um, cheating on their wives, and having these little sexual acts, these lustful, lustful things going on in their life. But that's it. That's all. I'm Brother Al. I love y'all. Alan Eve here to help you believe that marriage is not a game. Talk to them, girl.