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Allen&Eve
Welcome to the Allen & Eve Podcast!
We’re a Christian married couple having real, open conversations about life, marriage, relationships, family, faith, and everything in between.
As followers of Jesus Christ, we believe God’s Word should be the foundation of our lives and marriage, so we try to look at what we talk about from a biblical perspective. But listen… we’re sinners too! We might not always get it right; we might get a little in our flesh sometimes, and we definitely won’t always agree. 😂
And that’s okay — because these are real conversations between a real husband and wife.
We’re here to talk, laugh, disagree, share what we’ve learned, and work through some of the same things other couples and families are dealing with every day.
We don’t know where every conversation will take us, but we hope you’ll join us for the journey.
This is Allen & Eve. Let’s talk about it.
Episodes
38 episodes
When Your Wife Pulls Away: A Hard Truth for Christian Husbands
When physical intimacy slows or stops in a marriage, it is easy for frustration, emotional withdrawal, and silent resentment to take root. But the bedroom is a mirror. In this episode, we sit down for an open, unvarnished conversation about nav...
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Your Marriage Changes When You Learn to Serve Each Other
Are you giving your best energy to your job, friends, and outside commitments while leaving your marriage with the leftovers? Marriage is your first ministry, yet it is often t...
The Silent Killer of Marriages Isn’t Infidelity—It’s Burnout
Infidelity isn't the only thing tearing relationships apart—often, the quiet killer creeping into homes is pure exhaustion and burnout. In this episode of the Allen & Eve Podcast, we dive deep into t...
Why We’re Guarded: The Dark Side of Church Leadership We Experienced
Leaving church wasn’t about walking away from God—it was about protecting our marriage and family from toxic, unchecked church leadership. In this episode of the Allen & Eve Podcast, we have an un...
Behind Closed Doors: Confessing the Mistake That Paused Our Show
We’re back, and to be completely honest, I owe y’all an explanation. In this episode, I’m putting my pride aside and confessing the mistake I made that caused us to pause the show in the first place. I thought ...
Stepping Into Our True Gifts: Why We Redefined Our Roles on YouTube
Welcome to a brand-new season of the podcast! If you notice things look and sound a little different around here, you’re in the right place.In this opening episode, I’m sharing the big shift God has been...
Is It Okay to Compliment Someone Else When You're Married?
Hey everybody! Welcome back to the Allen & Eve Podcast! Come on in, bring it in, and join the family. Today, we are tackling a super hot, highly requested topic in marriage: Is it okay to compliment o...
Stop Judging What You Don't Understand in Someone Else's Marriage
Hey everybody! How are you doing? Welcome back to the show! Today, we are diving deep into a topic that so many couples and singles struggle with: why you should stop judging what you don't understand in so...
When Family Relationships Are Difficult: Growing Through the Season
Navigating in-law relationships and family tension can put a massive strain on a marriage—especially when distance, silence, or unresolved conflict creep in.In this episode, we share a deeply personal story about a three-year season of d...
I Have a Problem with Cheating Pastors—Here’s Why the Church Needs to Wake Up
Hey everybody! How you doing? Look, I had to get some things off my chest today because I am just so tired of seeing marriage treated like a game. You know how much I love you all and how much I care about the...
The First Look vs. The Second Look: Drawing the Line in Marriage
Hey everybody! How you doing? Welcome back to the podcast! Today, we are diving deep into a topic that a lot of couples try to avoid, but we're putting it all on the table: the first look ver...
Why a Sex Fast Might Be Exactly What Your Relationship Needs. (Completely Changed Our Marriage!)
Hey everybody! In this episode, I am getting completely raw and transparent with you about a major turning point in my marriage: the day I realized we needed to go on a 40-day fast from sex. I’m br...
Does Adultery MEAN Automatic Divorce? (Our Honest Conversation About Cheating)
Is a Christian marriage automatically over after the very first instance of infidelity? When the sacred vows are broken, is packing your bags the only scriptural response, or does grace demand a harder path? 💔...
You can't tell him to take the lead as a husband if you're always challenging his leadership.
Hey everybody! How you doing? Welcome back to the podcast. Today, we are diving deep into a topic that gets a little uncomfortable but is so necessary for a healthy marriage: leadership and submission. ...
Is It Cruel to Tell Your Partner They’re Gaining Weight, or Is It Fake Love to Stay Silent?
Hello, good people! Welcome back to the show. Is it cruel to tell your spouse that they are gaining weight? Or is it fake love to just stay silent? Welcome...
When Plan A Fails: The 3-Step Backup Plan for Marriage Fights
Hey believers, what do you do when you hit a wall in your marriage, a disagreement gets heated, and your go-to strategy completely fails? Most couples rely on a "Plan A" that leaves them trapped in the same frustrating cycle...
When They Leave Your Child Out: Family Red Flag You Can’t Ignore
WHY THIS MATTERS Hey Believers, in this episode, we’re breaking down the blended family red flags that many people ignore until it’s too late. We discuss why you can’t wait for your spouse to "eventually" see the problem...
Who Should Do the Housework? Stay-at-Home Mom vs. Working Dad
Is staying at home a "24/7 cleaning contract" or a partnership?In this episode of the Allen and Eve Podcast, we’re getting into the raw truth about housework, roles, and the resentment tha...
Blended Families: You Can’t Force Love – Dealing with Step-Parenting Challenges
Hey everybody. Today, we’re diving into the complexities of blended families and why you simply can’t force love into existence. In this episode, Allen and Eve discuss the intense pr...
Loyalty Conflicts: Why Your Blended Family is Failing
Hey Believers, in this episode of the Allen and Eve Podcast, we tackle the "Loyalty Conflict" that keeps blended families in constant friction. Many biological parents avoid correcting thei...
When You’re Caught Between Your Child and Your Partner (what would you do?)
Hey Believers, being caught in the middle of a conflict between your partner and your child is one of the most painful and challenging positions in a blended family. In this episode of the Allen and ...
The Stepparent Dilemma Nobody Talks About (Step Up or Step Back?)
Most people think blended families are supposed to “just work.”They don’t.In this episode, we break down the real struggles of being a stepparent—the part nobody prepares you for.👉 When do you step up?👉 When is i...
Don't File Yet: Why You Need to Separate Before Divorce.
Hey Believers, in this episode, we talk about why some couples may need separation before rushing into divorce. Too many people make permanent decisions in the middle of pain, anger, pride, and confusion. We discuss ...
The Marriage Blueprint: 5 Essential Foundations for Couples Headed to the Altar
Hey Believers, Are you really ready for marriage? In this episode, we unpack 5 essential foundations every couple needs before heading to the altar. This is a must-watch for engaged couples, seriously dating couples, and anyone se...