Allan&Eve: Marriage Is Not a Game
We are a Christian couple with a heart to see marriages restored and built to last. Our mission is simple: to help couples make it down the aisle and reduce divorce through honest, faith-based conversations. From singleness and dating to marriage, divorce, and remarriage, we’re tackling it all with biblical wisdom and real-life stories.
Episodes
24 episodes
Is It Cruel to Tell Your Partner They’re Gaining Weight, or Is It Fake Love to Stay Silent?
Hello, good people! Welcome back to the show. Is it cruel to tell your spouse that they are gaining weight? Or is it fake love to just stay silent? Welcome...
When Plan A Fails: The 3-Step Backup Plan for Marriage Fights
Hey believers, what do you do when you hit a wall in your marriage, a disagreement gets heated, and your go-to strategy completely fails? Most couples rely on a "Plan A" that leaves them trapped in the same frustrating cycle...
When They Leave Your Child Out: Family Red Flag You Can’t Ignore
WHY THIS MATTERS Hey Believers, in this episode, we’re breaking down the blended family red flags that many people ignore until it’s too late. We discuss why you can’t wait for your spouse to "eventually" see the problem...
Who Should Do the Housework? Stay-at-Home Mom vs. Working Dad
Is staying at home a "24/7 cleaning contract" or a partnership?In this episode of the Allen and Eve Podcast, we’re getting into the raw truth about housework, roles, and the resentment tha...
Blended Families: You Can’t Force Love – Dealing with Step-Parenting Challenges
Hey everybody. Today, we’re diving into the complexities of blended families and why you simply can’t force love into existence. In this episode, Allen and Eve discuss the intense pr...
Loyalty Conflicts: Why Your Blended Family is Failing
Hey Believers, in this episode of the Allen and Eve Podcast, we tackle the "Loyalty Conflict" that keeps blended families in constant friction. Many biological parents avoid correcting thei...
When You’re Caught Between Your Child and Your Partner (what would you do?)
Hey Believers, being caught in the middle of a conflict between your partner and your child is one of the most painful and challenging positions in a blended family. In this episode of the Allen and ...
The Stepparent Dilemma Nobody Talks About (Step Up or Step Back?)
Most people think blended families are supposed to “just work.”They don’t.In this episode, we break down the real struggles of being a stepparent—the part nobody prepares you for.👉 When do you step up?👉 When is i...
Don't File Yet: Why You Need to Separate Before Divorce.
Hey Believers, in this episode, we talk about why some couples may need separation before rushing into divorce. Too many people make permanent decisions in the middle of pain, anger, pride, and confusion. We discuss ...
The Marriage Blueprint: 5 Essential Foundations for Couples Headed to the Altar
Hey Believers, Are you really ready for marriage? In this episode, we unpack 5 essential foundations every couple needs before heading to the altar. This is a must-watch for engaged couples, seriously dating couples, and anyone se...
"I’m tired of being an irritated husband." (70% isn't enough)
Hey husbands, are you tired of being the "irritated husband"? In this episode, I’m getting real about a personal struggle many of us face but rarely talk about: the g...
“Unmarried Voices in Married Conversations”
Hey Believers, In today’s culture, many voices speak into marriage—but not all of them carry the wisdom of covenant. In this discussion, we examine what happens when people who are not married attempt to...
The Divorce Debate: Should You Stay or Should You Walk Away?
Hey Believers, In this episode of the Allenandeve podcast, we dive into one of the most difficult topics a couple can face: the decision to stay in a marriage or pursue a...
How to Handle the "Hard Seasons": Biblical Wisdom for Struggling Husbands
When Marriage Gets Hard: What God Taught Me Hey Believers,...
"Marriage and Humility: Understanding How Pride Reopens What Repentance Closed"
Hey Believers, In this episode of the allenandeve podcast, we’re getting real about a recent moment where things got tense between us. Even after moments of deep repentance and confession, pride has a way of c...
The Secret Cracks in Your Marriage: Choosing Connection Over Comfort
In this episode, we’re tackling the "scary" side of intimacy: bringing our darkest thoughts into the light. We often keep secrets—struggles wit...
Why We Did a 60-Day Sex Fast (Marriage + Spiritual Growth)
Hey Believers, We’ve been married for seven years, and if we’re being honest, they’ve been seven of the best years of our lives. But lately, we realized we were still carrying some 's...
Is Your Family Quietly Sabotaging Your Marriage? (The Truth)
Hey Believers, why is the transition from "child" to "spouse" so difficult for some families? In this episode, we’re having a transparent and relatable conversation about the invisible...
Stop Forcing Relationships With Your In-Laws.
Hey Believers, Marriage was never designed to include constant interference, divided loyalty, or forced relationships with extended family. In this video, we hav...
Why Secret Purchases Damage Your Marriage.
Hey Believers, in this video, I take full accountability for a decision I made that hurt my wife. I acted in a selfish moment, focusing on what I wanted rather than what was best for us. I didn’...
Their Child Support Payment Impacts Your Future Together
Child support in blended families is one of the most misunderstood and emotionally charged topics in marriage. In this video, we address a hard truth many couples avoid: what happens when the other parent ...
Married but Still Friends With Your Ex? Why Social Media Boundaries Can Make or Break a Marriage.
Marriage requires mutual respect, boundaries, and accountability—especially when it comes to exes and social media.If your spouse tells you they are uncomfortable with you remaining friends with an ex, and you ignore them, ...
“Learning to Hear Each Other in Marriage—Even When Emotions Rise”
Let me take you back to a real moment in our marriage—a washing machine that seemed broken, emotions that could have escalated, and a lesson we had to learn the hard way. What started as a simple house...
“How to Win Your Husband Without a Word” (1 Peter 3)
In today’s episode, we speak directly to the wives who are carrying a silent weight in their homes—women who love God deeply but are married to husbands who are unbelieving, spiritually immature, or coming out of another religion. If this is yo...