Mindfulness Exercises, with Sean Fargo

Softening & Steering (A Guided Meditation)

Sean Fargo

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We guide a short meditation that begins with birdsong and ends with a steadier, kinder presence in the body. We soften tension and resistance, then steer our attention toward care, values, and the life we want to live breath by breath. 
• settling into the body and the space around us 
• softening breath and releasing unnecessary tension 
• noticing resistance as clenching, tightness, quick breathing 
• spotting resistance as judging or distancing 
• meeting fear with gentle space and care 
• grounding through contact with the seat or ground 
• steering intention toward values, love, and wisdom 
• returning through small movements and sensory awareness


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Birds Outside And A Simple Plan

Softening Body And Breath

How Resistance Shows Up

Grounding Into Sensation And Space

Steering Intention Toward What Matters

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Alright, welcome everyone. As I'm recording this, I'm hearing some birds singing outside. I think they're saying, hello, everybody. Let's do a meditation today. So I think that's what we'll do. We'll do a guided meditation on softening and steering our intention towards cultivating this presence and care as the birds are cheering for us right now. We're going to be practicing softening the body, softening our breath, and really just softening resistance by settling into the body, settling into the space, sensing into the soft parts of our animal body, as Mary Oliver sometimes puts it, and just noticing where we're unnecessarily holding on to tension or tightness or fear, and allowing our body to express itself and to flow. And then we'll move into steering into intention, cultivating values and care, and then just kind of flowing with whatever comes with a more grounded presence. And so just kind of checking in and notice how we're feeling what's coming up for us as we consider these options, these views. And so when we talk about softening, we're actually first kind of just noticing whether there's any resistance or hardening that can take the form of clenching, or sometimes quick breathing, or tightness in different parts of the body. Sometimes resistance will take the shape of judging, judging a comment, a person, ourselves, situation, noticing any form of resistance or distancing with a gentle curiosity. Sometimes resistance takes the form of fear. Sometimes it's helpful to create a little space around the resistance to hold it gently. It's normal and understandable that there's some resistance to life. Seeing if we can allow ourselves to be here in our body, breathing, maybe softening into this moment with a little care or acceptance. Sometimes it's nice to take a deep breath. Feel our body on the seat, the ground. Allowing ourselves to be here in this moment with this soft spacious awareness. Are you noticing any layers of resistance? Honoring the inviting softening accepting. The habits that we want to do most the experiences we most treasure steering the mind to cultivate what matters most. Maybe inviting a sense of care embodied presence in our life. May we be healthy peaceful joyful steering towards more love and wisdom moment by moment breath by breath for the rest of our lives.

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Softening to what's here.

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Wiggling our fingers or toes. Feeling our body on the seat or the ground. Noticing the sounds and the smells around us.