Baji: The Big Sister You Never Had
The Baji You Never Had is a podcast for women who grew up being the strong one, the eldest daughter or the one who stepped into that role, the emotional anchor, the fixer, navigating life without an older sister to lean on.
Hosted by Uroosa Malik, a Pakistani-American Muslim woman and proud Baji to her younger sister, this podcast is your safe space for honest conversations about womanhood, identity, healing, faith, boundaries, friendships, and becoming your most authentic self.
Growing up in a South Asian household taught me what it meant to be both a daughter and a son. It taught me to carry responsibility early, break generational patterns, and learn life through trial instead of guidance. This podcast exists to be the voice many of us didn’t have growing up: reassurance, clarity, sisterly wisdom and more.
Each episode feels like chai with your big sister where we're reflective, grounding, sometimes tough, often tender. We’ll talk about navigating relationships, self-worth, cultural expectations, faith journeys, confidence, and learning how to choose yourself without guilt.
This podcast is for the eldest daughter who always had to be strong. For women craving a safe, values-aligned space to grow and create their own path. For Brown girls who worked twice as hard just to be seen. And for any woman, from any background, seeking guidance, healing, and a reminder that she is not alone.
Baji: The Big Sister You Never Had
Latest Episodes
I Stopped Dreaming of a Wedding. I Started Dreaming of a Better Me.
In this episode of Baji: The Big Sister You Never Had, we talk about something many South Asian women grow up hearing from a young age: marriage.For so many of us, marriage wasn't just presented as a milestone. It was presented ...
Your 20s Were Never Meant to Look Like Everyone Else’s
Welcome to the very first episode of Baji: The Big Sister You Never Had. If you’ve ever opened Instagram and felt like everyone else was somehow ahead of you, getting married, having babies, buying homes, hitting all the “r...
Welcome to Baji: The Big Sister You Never Had
This first episode is an introduction, not just to the podcast, but to the space I’m creating for you. A space for the ones who grew up being strong early, figuring things out on their own, and wishing they had someone older to lean on. Someone...
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