【EP4】聽話30年才發現：最難的溝通，不是工作是家裡

小學二年級，Hui 削鉛筆割傷手指，🩸流不止，卻躲在房間裡不敢出去喊媽媽——因為怕被說不乖。那道疤到現在還在。

「聽話」是 Hui 從小養成的慣性。父母感情不好，她自動變成家裡的協調者；弟弟有事，第一個找的也是她。這個模式後來跟著她進了職場：老闆定 KPI，她就拚命追，從來不問自己想要什麼。離職後回到家，三十幾歲了，媽媽依然每晚等門、追問行蹤，那種窒息感終於在一場大吵裡攤開來。

那場大吵之後，媽媽終於開始慢慢放手——某天深夜回家，Hui 開門發現媽媽已經睡了，沒有坐在沙發上等，她整個震驚到不行。後來是弟弟跟媽媽鬧僵的某個飯後，Hui 居中協調時突然看著媽媽說：「妳不用把婚姻的事當成對我們的虧欠。」媽媽哭了。她跟媽媽說：那不是妳的責任，每個人有每個人的課題。

這集聊的不是怎麼跟原生家庭和解，而是怎麼在還沒和解的時候，先把自己接住。

🎧 暉比尋常——兩個獅子座女生在 35 歲後「換條路走」的真實記錄。

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