Messy as Hell
Real women. Real talk. Real life is messy as hell.
We’re everyday women having honest conversations about the uncomfortable, complicated, heartbreaking, and downright messy parts of life—the things we sometimes hide in our effort to look like we have it all figured out.
We’re not experts, and we’re not here to give you advice or tell you how to fix your life. We’re just here to talk about it—the good, the bad, and the gloriously messy—and remind each other that maybe we don’t have to have it all figured out.
Episodes
9 episodes
The Families We Make
In Part 2 of our conversation about family, we shift from the families that made us to the families we’re making now.We talk about the pieces of our childhoods that we’ve chosen to carry forward, the things we’re intentionally doing diff...
The Families That Made Us
In Part 1 of our conversation about family, we're looking back at the homes we grew up in, the roles we fell into, and the dynamics we once thought were completely normal—because they were our normal.We talk about the things our...
When You Don't Have the Bandwidth
Sometimes life gets so full that even the simplest things start to feel impossible.This week, life got in the way. We didn’t have the time, energy, or bandwidth to pull together a full-length episode—so instead of pushing ourselves past ...
I Love You, Now Go Ask Dad.
In this episode, we’re talking about what it means to be the default parent — the person everyone somehow finds when they need a snack, a Band-Aid, help finding the thing that is directly in front of them, an answer to a question, emotio...
The Plot Twist Nobody Prepared Us For
Nobody really prepares you for perimenopause. One day you're going about your life and the next you're wondering why you can't sleep, why you keep blanking on words mid sentence, and why all of a sudden just looking at your partner ...
Questionable Parenting Decisions
We all have them—the parenting choices we probably wouldn’t brag about at school pickup.In this episode, we’re talking about our questionable parenting decisions—the shortcuts, compromises, bribes, and survival tactics that might ...
The Cost of Being the Strong One
In this episode, we’re talking about what it means to be the strong one—the nurturer, the problem-solver, the person everyone runs to when they’re hurting, overwhelmed, or just need someone to make things feel okay.But what happen...
