Aparigraha - The Practice of Letting Go

In this episode, we’re exploring the fifth and final Yama: Aparigraha.

Aparigraha is often translated as non-attachment, non-grasping, or letting go.

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Welcome to Counting Stars Yoga. Hi, I'm Lisa, a lifelong student of yoga and Ayurveda, and a lover of travel c and discovering the sacred. Welcome through everyday life. Thank you for joining me as we call Yoga Philosophy, the eight length of yoga, the wisdom of Ayurveda, and the mini stars of yoga practice and hot card as background to our stuff. What the given is to yoga in this card for many years of cards and for that work, definitely practically and software. A gentle note before we begin, this podcast is offered for educational and inspirational episodes. It is not medical or psychological advice. Please always listen to your body and seek professional care with it. So take some time for yourself. Take a slow, steady breath in, and exhale arriving here with me. Hi everybody, in this episode we're exploring the fifth and final yama, a parigraha. An a parigraha is often translated as non-attachment, non-grasping, or letting go. And in many ways it invites us to soften our grip on life, to loosen the hold we have on expectations, outcomes, possessions, identities, and even the stories we tell ourselves about who we're supposed to be. Because as human beings, it's very natural to hold on when we hold on to plans, onto relationships, onto routines, and versions of ourselves that once felt familiar. We hold on to expectations of how life should look. And often we do this because holding can feel safe. But life is constantly changing. Seasons shift, people change, we change. And suffering can arise when we resist that natural movement. Some things are meant to move through us. Some things are meant to be released. And while this can sound simple, letting go is rarely easy, especially in modern life when we're often encouraged to accumulate more possessions, more achievements, more certainty and control. And there can be a quiet fear underneath all of this. A fear that if we let go, there won't be enough. But apparently our heart invites trust. Trust in the unfolding of life and in change. And that we do not need to cling so tightly to feel secure. It might look like letting go of perfectionism, releasing the need to have everything figured out. Allowing yourself to change your mind and to outgrow old versions of yourself. Or to move at a different pace than others around you. And sometimes a parigraha is emotional. It can be letting go of resentment, of old stories that we tell ourselves, of the need to replace something over and over in the mind. And then sometimes it's physical. Clearing spaces, simplifying your life, creating room to breathe. And there can be something deeply calming about simplifying our lives. And not because possessions are wrong, but because too much can sometimes weigh heavily on the mind and the nervous system. And a paragraph asks us, what am I holding on to that is no longer serving me? Or equally what would happen if I softened my grip. And this yama also speaks to attachment to outcomes. And this feels especially relevant in a world where we often want certainty. We want to know how things will unfold. We want reassurance. We want guarantees. But life rarely moves in perfectly predictable ways. Sometimes things unfold differently than we planned. Sometimes unexpectedly they unfold better. Doesn't mean we stop caring or stop dreaming. It just means that we learn to hold things more lightly and to make space for life to move naturally. And to trust that we can meet whatever comes with presence and awareness. And one of the most powerful parts of this practice is recognizing that we're not defined by what we own, achieve, or hold on to. Our worth does not disappear when things change. Our identity does not need to stay fixed forever. We're allowed to evolve, allowed to release, and we can begin again. And like all the anas, a paragraha is not about perfection. There'll still be moments where we cling or fear change. And moments where letting go feels uncomfortable. And that's all part of being human. The practice is simply in becoming aware, noticing where we're gripping tightly, and gently asking ourselves if we are ready to soften, even just a little. And so as you move through your day, you might carry this quiet reflection with you. What would it feel like to trust life a little more? To loosen the need to control every outcome and to release what no longer feels aligned for you. Perhaps a paragraha is not really about losing anything at all, it's just about creating space, finding space for peace, space for growth, and just making space for something new to arrive into your life. Thank you for practicing with me. Lots of love. As we close today's podcast, thank you so much for spending your time with me. If you'd like to stay connected, you can find more yoga, meditation, Ayurvedic wisdom at countingstars.com.au And you can also practice with me in this video or online. You can find me on Instagram and Facebook at CountingStars Yoga and subscribe to the Counting Stars Yoga YouTube channel as we for sacred places. Until next time, take a breath. Move definitely through your day, sending you lots of love and