EP008｜看不見的第三者，原來每個人家裡都有！

#第三者 #婚姻經營

婚姻久了，原來真正的小三是......?

婚姻中「多出來的」那個，通常根本不是別的男人或女人

可能我們的孩子、是家人、是一群呼朋引伴的朋友，甚至是一隻貓 🤣🤣

甚至是地方媽媽追到欲罷不能的韓劇歐巴～

你有婚姻中的第三者嗎？歡迎一起來大聊特聊！

▍本集你會聽到

• 是三小，還是小三？？婚姻中的小三不只是人！
• 每個家庭最常見、也最理直氣壯的第三者
• 女生 VS 男生 的戀愛需求
• 結了婚才出現的第三者...到現在才是真正的第一順位！

▍如果你曾經

• 覺得另一半的心思永遠先給孩子、給工作、給朋友，就是輪不到你
• 明明兩個人都在身邊，卻有一種被冷落、不被重視的失落
• 想給彼此多一點情緒價值，卻不知道從哪開始，也怕是不是自己想太多

歡迎你邀請「最重要、卻也最容易被你忽略」的另一半，一起觀賞這集！

📌 本集精華時間軸

• 00:00 到底是「三小」還是「小三」？
• 02:04 家裡最理直氣壯的第三者，其實是自己的孩子
• 03:42 生完小孩之後，對不起，忽略你！
• 06:22 看不見的第三者
• 13:08 外遇不是突然發生的？是不是關係先有了破口？
• 15:44 啊！原來我才是第三者？！
• 21:30 回應聽眾留言

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《鋼鐵大叔愛露露》 每月隔週三 晚間 22:00 更新

一個說話不繞彎子的資深演員 Michael， 和一個比他年輕17歲、深耕瑜伽20年的 Lulu。

我們聊婚姻、聊健康， 聊那些活了半輩子後，才慢慢學會面對的事情。

不是專家，只是兩個還在學習生活的人。

我們把高音質的檔案放在其他網路平台， 歡迎大家訂閱！

Apple Podcast：https://reurl.cc/O6a5gD

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Youtube：@lulumichael777

商業合作信箱：lulumichael777@gmail.com

主持人：Michael、Lulu

主題曲：Yiler

節目製作：Yu-Studio

Transcript

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SPEAKER_02 0:04

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SPEAKER_02 3:34

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SPEAKER_00 4:05

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SPEAKER_02 4:43

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SPEAKER_00 5:58

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SPEAKER_02 6:01

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SPEAKER_00 15:03

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SPEAKER_02 17:47

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SPEAKER_00 19:56

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SPEAKER_02 20:29

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