The Break Time Podcast
(Formerly Break Time on Westside)
A young, witty, Kenyan guy's outlook on Love, Sex & Relationships in Nairobi, Kenya and the world at-large. Hosted by Sir Denver B, expect a mini-marathon of comedy, insight and controversial opinions with a dash of charm. New episodes out every Tuesday & Friday.
Episodes
682 episodes
#682: The Tables Have Turned...
It's all about changing with the times in this episode, as the man of today questions whether to adapt to the current reality or stick to the good old ways that have always worked best. There's a young man who's questioning the valu...
#681: Love Knows No Broke Drunkards
It's all about the men in this episode, where we see them as both victim and perpetrator for different reasons and scenarios. A man cries wolf in a sexual harassment case, and gets proven wrong, while a woman questions a weird phenomenon. ...
#680: Do All Rich Men Struggle with Monogamy?
What comes from the west, and has struggled to find its place here in the Nairobi culture? White people and monogamy (hehe), and we're trying to set the record straight on both. A white man claims that Kenyans are suffering from bei...
#679: The Problem is You!
It's another episode and self-awareness is on the table, but some people seem to be avoiding it. Keke Palmer and Demi Lovato speak on dating in their teens before becoming "victims". A man hops online to speak on his inability to se...
#678: Dating Has A Formula?
It's an episode all about the women, but not in the way you think. There are some talks regarding men that needed input from the men's side, so here we are. A man asks about consent during the act, and a woman speaks against today's...
#677: Are Genetics Not Helping You Secure Love?
It's back to the full episodes and away we go! There's a lot of self-reflection in this one, and there are a couple of women who may feel attacked after listening, but it's all in the name of love and accountability (trust). There's...
#676: A Case for SAHM
A man (from Meru) hops online and proposes an interesting kind of life: being a stay-at-home wife/mom, wrapped in a patriarchal community. With the idea (and the content) having really taken shape over the past few years online, it was surprisi...
#675: She Should've Taken The Money!
A look into the proposal made to Sanaipei Tande brings some thoughts to the surface. Also, Nick Cannon's marriage and divorce happened around the same time and has been discussed at a similar time as well. Could they be related?&nbs...
#672: Of Women & Manipulative Statements
You know there's those loaded statements that people use/say that don't sound bad when they're said, until you think them through after? Yeah, we're discussing some of them...
#671: The Provider Paradox of Feminism
Fuelled by a desire for understanding and a hint of yapping, an aspiring feminist brings forth a question: why have economic inclusion and still want men to pay the bills? There are layers to this, and more to be said. There's a deb...
#670: The Self-Sabotage of Ideologies
In a world filled with beliefs and ideologies that can polarise many a people, the question remains: what do you do when you have polarizing ideologies yet you're in the dating market. The answer: Shut up about them. It ...
#669: Great Friend, Shitty Boyfriend... But Why?
A lady hopped on to TikTok to ask a question: Why do men make for such great friends, but tend to be very shitty boyfriends? Interesting question. I guess someone has to answer it...
#668: Intelligence Won't Help You Out Here
A TikTok creator claims that very intelligent women tend to get angrier in relationships, which can lead to them moving from partner to partner while getting frustrated and being very logival about the entire thing. He may be right,...
#667: Would You Marry You?
Time to ask a question of self-reflection: What makes you desirable to a partner? But even more important than that, would you date you?
#666: The Biggest Lie Women Were Told About Love
In an episode trying to illuminate the truth, a man comes off as a liar, while some women try to debunk some lies made to them when they were young. A woman is claiming that men today want to be pampered, and this claim gets support...
#665: Why Aren't The Millenials Marrying?
In this episode centering on men, an attempt is made to see why men today are defaulting away from marriage, while seeing if we can improve men's birth control in the very near future. There seems to be a concern over the growing ri...
#664: But Do They Want You Though?
It's about women, it's about choices and it's about preferences. There's quite a bit to unpack in this episode as women take center stage and try to maximise on selecting as well as being selected. There's a rant about the reduction...
#663: Why Are Relationships Failing So Quickly?
It's all about our relationships, as it's discovered that we're either holding on for too long or letting go too fast. Someone said that feminism is a young woman's sport, and there's a bit to unpack there. Then someone hops online ...
#662: Unpopular Opinions on Sex
It's about that time. Due to public demand (and a bit of cheekiness), the unpopular opinions go to the bedroom. Before that though, the idea of men cooperating together to assist one another in securing the goods is discussed. From ...
#661Physical Attraction, Sex Jokes & Unpopular Opinions
It's all wild and well-rounded in this episode as we take a look at the more controversial side of life, blending the main elements of love, sex, relationships and some guy shit to give a well-rounded episode. Sweden is allegedly tu...
#660: If She Makes More, She Wants A Wife
It's an episode on money as bills are being paid but those expected to pay are either underqualified or playing fantasy games. There's a new term that's come up called Financial Catfishing, and it's a little more familiar than we realise. ...
#659: Men vs Women- Who Hates More?
In an episode challenging perception and ill will, there are demonstrations of pure emotion, but also wild pettiness. A lady is trying to take her friend to court because the friend missed her wedding, but we're on her side? There's...
#658: Does Marriage Only Benefit Men?
It's an episode with a lot of thoughts and opinions on marriage, so join us (metaphorically) in unholy matrimony as we question what may have ruined marriage for millennials today, and whether it's worth it in the long run, There's ...
#657: Boys Aren't Raised To Be Men?
It's an episode full of criticism as its topic requires such; the patriarchy. Many women are blaming it for their reality, and others using it as one of the tools in their arsenal to justify the mistreatment of some women throughout history.&nb...
#656: This Reality Is NOT Your Fantasy
It's all about messing around in this episode where many people get to bed but not too many benefit from the environment. There's something about the Winter Olympics too, but it's not that much (wink, wink) From a story of condom sh...