The Break Time Podcast
(Formerly Break Time on Westside)
A young, witty, Kenyan guy's outlook on Love, Sex & Relationships in Nairobi, Kenya and the world at-large. Hosted by Sir Denver B, expect a mini-marathon of comedy, insight and controversial opinions with a dash of charm. New episodes out every Tuesday & Friday.
Episodes
691 episodes
#692: The Polygamist- My Thoughts
It's been spoken about for a bit, and it seems to have many in a chokehold. The series hit Netflix and people have spoken about it, made memes about it and posted about it. Someone had to see what all this fuss was about, and if the...
#691: You Can't Ride Forever...
It's tax season, and we've got money at the centre of this episode. The price of the date is up, and we need to know why. There's also a woman with a money issue in a relationship, and we need to see whether the man might be the issue.
#690: Leave Conversion Therapy To The Therapists
It's another episode but no sides are being taken here. There's an equal opportunity understanding, but also an equal opportunity to be accountable and change in your own individual way(s). Someone online said that sex is overrated,...
#689: Are We Friends or Are You In The Friendzone?
It's going to sound like a long rant, as the issues get sent the women's way in this heated episode. It all starts with a question often asked online but this time, a guy answers it. Then, after a man's post on why he'd never be in ...
#687: 5 Non-Sexual Things Men Like
It's all about flipping the tables and seeing how men are faring in this episode. A recent report stated that Kenyan men gossip more than Kenyan women, and some tribes do it more than others. That's definitely got to be critiqued, right? <...
#686: An Alternative to The Arranged Marriage?
Everyone's trying to find something caring and long-lasting in this land of love, but is extra help really necessary? That's what we're trying to figure out in this episode. There's women trying to nail High Networth Individuals (HN...
#685: Can You Date and Be Broke At The Same Time?
It's all about testing the extremes as the two women make two statements, each of which represents an extremity in itself. Bonnie Blue is pregnant (allegedly) and wants an extreme alternative to a baby shower. A lady on TikTok speak...
#684: Relationships Are Maintained by Forgiving Women?
It's all wild talk and audacious moves in this episode as Diddy makes an appeal while a young lady makes a wild relationship claim. Diddy's lawyers are claiming that his "Freak Offs" were 'choreographed' examples of amateur adult co...
#683: Reality Is (Often) Different From Online BS
It's all about finding the truth and questioning people's ideas today in this episode as a new discovery threatens to shift perspectives on gay people. There's also some pandering that needs critiquing. New research suggests that th...
#682: The Tables Have Turned...
It's all about changing with the times in this episode, as the man of today questions whether to adapt to the current reality or stick to the good old ways that have always worked best. There's a young man who's questioning the valu...
#681: Love Knows No Broke Drunkards
It's all about the men in this episode, where we see them as both victim and perpetrator for different reasons and scenarios. A man cries wolf in a sexual harassment case, and gets proven wrong, while a woman questions a weird phenomenon. ...
#680: Do All Rich Men Struggle with Monogamy?
What comes from the west, and has struggled to find its place here in the Nairobi culture? White people and monogamy (hehe), and we're trying to set the record straight on both. A white man claims that Kenyans are suffering from bei...
#679: The Problem is You!
It's another episode and self-awareness is on the table, but some people seem to be avoiding it. Keke Palmer and Demi Lovato speak on dating in their teens before becoming "victims". A man hops online to speak on his inability to se...
#678: Dating Has A Formula?
It's an episode all about the women, but not in the way you think. There are some talks regarding men that needed input from the men's side, so here we are. A man asks about consent during the act, and a woman speaks against today's...
#677: Are Genetics Not Helping You Secure Love?
It's back to the full episodes and away we go! There's a lot of self-reflection in this one, and there are a couple of women who may feel attacked after listening, but it's all in the name of love and accountability (trust). There's...
#676: A Case for SAHM
A man (from Meru) hops online and proposes an interesting kind of life: being a stay-at-home wife/mom, wrapped in a patriarchal community. With the idea (and the content) having really taken shape over the past few years online, it was surprisi...
#675: She Should've Taken The Money!
A look into the proposal made to Sanaipei Tande brings some thoughts to the surface. Also, Nick Cannon's marriage and divorce happened around the same time and has been discussed at a similar time as well. Could they be related?&nbs...
#672: Of Women & Manipulative Statements
You know there's those loaded statements that people use/say that don't sound bad when they're said, until you think them through after? Yeah, we're discussing some of them...
#671: The Provider Paradox of Feminism
Fuelled by a desire for understanding and a hint of yapping, an aspiring feminist brings forth a question: why have economic inclusion and still want men to pay the bills? There are layers to this, and more to be said. There's a deb...
#670: The Self-Sabotage of Ideologies
In a world filled with beliefs and ideologies that can polarise many a people, the question remains: what do you do when you have polarizing ideologies yet you're in the dating market. The answer: Shut up about them. It ...
#669: Great Friend, Shitty Boyfriend... But Why?
A lady hopped on to TikTok to ask a question: Why do men make for such great friends, but tend to be very shitty boyfriends? Interesting question. I guess someone has to answer it...
#668: Intelligence Won't Help You Out Here
A TikTok creator claims that very intelligent women tend to get angrier in relationships, which can lead to them moving from partner to partner while getting frustrated and being very logival about the entire thing. He may be right,...
#667: Would You Marry You?
Time to ask a question of self-reflection: What makes you desirable to a partner? But even more important than that, would you date you?
#666: The Biggest Lie Women Were Told About Love
In an episode trying to illuminate the truth, a man comes off as a liar, while some women try to debunk some lies made to them when they were young. A woman is claiming that men today want to be pampered, and this claim gets support...
#665: Why Aren't The Millenials Marrying?
In this episode centering on men, an attempt is made to see why men today are defaulting away from marriage, while seeing if we can improve men's birth control in the very near future. There seems to be a concern over the growing ri...