I loved and hated the movie "Patch Adams" when it came out in the late 90's. There is one scene that is burned into my mind and unfortunately, I'll never forget it. Patch and his girlfriend Carin Fisher were serving the community with a medical clinic. A man named Larry enters the clinic and they take him in. He is mentally ill and disturbed, but seems harmless. One night, Larry calls Carin and asks her to come over and help him. She is so trusting and willingly comes over. She enters Larry's house with a smile, says his name, then sees his face. The scene ends as my heart fell into the pit of my stomach. I knew what happened and it was confirmed when the scene ends and goes to Patch receiving the news that Carin was murdered by Larry, who then killed himself with a shotgun. Years after this movie, I still think of this scene for my wife, my daughter, and even myself as I enter homes and offices to clean by myself. What could Carin could have done differently? Are there steps that solo cleaners can take to protect ourselves? I admit that I don't worry as much as a guy cleaning, but I've still had my doubts from time to time. The majority of solo cleaners are female, so I've asked a solo cleaning community that I lead for suggestions. Here's what they said...
- Beth Lane - I always try to vet them online through Google, the socials, etc. On the walk through, I only agree to the job if my “gut” tells me it’s okay. And if not, I need no logical reason to say no. My instincts are enough. Also, I don’t service homes of single men. Nothing against single guys...it’s just not my personal comfort zone as an unmarried woman.
- Heather Albrecht - I keep a Google calendar and my clients addresses are all in it. Its shared with my husband, he always knows where I am. If my clients leave, I lock the doors behind them. I keep my phone on me. I try to always be aware of my surroundings. If I go to meet a new client, I make sure to have my pepper spray, keep my keys on me, I also again make sure my husband knows where I am.
- Chelsea Donaldson - Look the person up on Google/Facebook. I always feel better if we have mutual Facebook friends. Once, a bachelor client had a news story done about him rescuing a dog that was hit by a car. Generally, single male clients are the ones I'm most nervous about, but that news story made me feel much better! 2 years later, I still clean for him bi-weekly. Great guy! Carry pepper spray the first time and always let them lead when showing the home (i.e. don't let them walk behind me). I do a walk-through before EACH cleaning. This is to see which areas need most attention, but also to make sure nothing is out of the ordinary or potentially dangerous. Lock the door when I'm alone in a house. My husband always knows where I am and when. I like to say hi to any neighbors or delivery/service people that I see before I go in. Just extra people to know who I am and where I am. I'll add here. If you have mutual friends on FB, check with those mutual friends and see if they have any feedback on this potential client.
- Letra Grayer I bring pepper spray and share my location with someone at all times. Sometimes, I may call someone to let them know I made it to the location in front of the customer and I let the person know that I’ll call them when I leave. They have the address and contact number and will do a follow up service call. Mainly to ensure I have left the premises.
- Carol Lange Always make sure you know the address. Keep your phone on and charged. Consider obtaining your conceal-carry permit. My husband always knows where and when I'm supposed to be. Lock all doors. When exiting he also knows this. Been doing this 23 years. Never be alone when they have workers in the home.
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