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341: Helping Your Kids Navigate Friendships with Dr. Willough Jenkins

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As parents, control feels like protection. It feels like we can prevent our kids' mistakes, soften their pain, and steer them away from decisions that might hurt them. But here's the truth: control protects us, not the relationship. In this episode, we sit down with board-certified child psychiatrist Dr. Willough Jenkins to talk about one of the trickiest parts of parenting: helping our kids navigate friendships. 


In this episode:

  • Is it developmentally normal when kids suddenly want to drop a friend?
  • How to support a child with an anxious attachment style when friendship gets hard.
  • When (and whether) to get the other kid's parents involved.
  • What to do when your child is hanging out with kids who don't bring out their best and being honest that our kids aren't always angels either.
  • How to handle mean girl dynamics if you have a daughter going through it.
  • Signs that your child may genuinely struggle with making friends, and what you can actually do about it.
  • Tactics for staying a safe, trusted place your kids will actually come to when friendship gets tough.


LINKS AND RESOURCES:


Follow Dr. Willough on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drwilloughjenkins/


Dr. Willough’s Website: https://www.willoughjenkins.com/


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