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Emotional Hoarding: When the Fear of Scarcity and Loss Blocks Love

Martha Alvarez, LMFT Episode 61

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Do you or your partner hold back emotions out of fear of getting hurt or feeling drained? This episode unpacks emotional hoarding—when love is rationed like a limited resource, creating distance instead of connection.

Learn how fear of scarcity and loss fuels emotional avoidance, why anxious and avoidant partners get stuck in a push-pull cycle, and how to shift from emotional scarcity to abundance.

Listen now to break free from fear and build deeper, more secure love!