Wives Not Sisters
A playful, unfiltered podcast where a married wlw couple dives into the chaos of modern relationships, pop culture, queer lore, and all the little things most people wouldn’t admit out loud.
Wives Not Sisters is a queer-led podcast where marriage meets humor, honesty, and a little too much sharing but in the best way. We’re here to normalize nuance in relationships -- from romantic, platonic, familial, and everything in between- and to create a space where deep conversations and dumb jokes can coexist. Through real talk, playful debates, and just enough oversharing, we’re building a community that’s reflective, ridiculous, and radically relatable.
Wives Not Sisters
Girls Hooking Up With Girls
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What actually counts as sexy… and what’s just awkward?
In this episode, Alix & Kayla dive into a spicy (and very funny) conversation about lesbian sex, flirting, and the little moments that can either turn up the heat or completely ruin the vibe.
From being pushed against the fridge to intense eye contact, belt-loop pulling, accidental headbutts, and the infamous phrase “good girl,” they unpack the tiny details that make intimacy work—or make you burst out laughing mid-makeout.
Along the way, they also talk about how humor plays a role in relationships, the awkward reality of real-life intimacy versus movie moments, and why some “sexy” tropes just don’t translate in real life.
It’s chaotic, honest, and full of the kind of conversations you only hear between married lesbians who have no filter.
01:05 The Wi-Fi name that made them laugh
01:40 Ex-Mormon lesbian love story obsession
02:20 Why Mormon stories keep finding them
03:00 How listeners shape the podcast
03:35 Today’s topic: “girls hooking up with girls”
04:00 Beating the algorithm (aka avoiding the phrase lesbian sex)
04:15 Game time: Sexy or Silly
04:40 Being pushed against the fridge
05:10 Whispering “come here” from across the room
05:30 Intense eye contact
05:50 Accidental headbutts during a kiss
06:05 Laughing during a makeout
06:25 Saying “good girl”
06:40 Being called “trouble”
07:00 Sexy texts vs. nude photos
07:25 Pulling someone by the belt loops
07:40 Trying to be dominant but apologizing immediately
08:00 Whispering something sexy… and mispronouncing it
08:10 Making a playlist for the moment
08:30 When the “sexy playlist” completely kills the mood
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