
Wives Not Sisters
A playful, unfiltered podcast where a married wlw couple dives into the chaos of modern relationships, pop culture, queer lore, and all the little things most people wouldn’t admit out loud.
Wives Not Sisters is a queer-led podcast where marriage meets humor, honesty, and a little too much sharing but in the best way. We’re here to normalize nuance in relationships -- from romantic, platonic, familial, and everything in between- and to create a space where deep conversations and dumb jokes can coexist. Through real talk, playful debates, and just enough oversharing, we’re building a community that’s reflective, ridiculous, and radically relatable.
Podcasting since 2020 • 10 episodes
Wives Not Sisters
Latest Episodes
Fighting Fair: What Took Us Years To Learn
In this episode, Alix and Kayla get real about what it means to fight fair after six years together. From weirdly specific compliments to the unspoken rules that keep their relationship grounded, the couple unpacks how they’ve learned ...
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Season 1
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Episode 9
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59:54

WLW Lore: Jojo Siwa
In this episode of Wives Not Sisters, Alex and Kayla dive deep into Jojo Siwa’s rise from Dance Moms to queer icon status. From the origins of her bow empire to Nickelodeon fame, child star controversies, her bold coming out, an...
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Season 1
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Episode 8
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1:16:45

Queer Culture: Lesbians vs Bi Girls
This week, Alix and Kayla dive into the long-standing dynamics between bisexual women and lesbians—myths, stereotypes, and the cultural nuances that shape queer relationships. From playful debates (Renee Rapp vs. Cara Delevingne) to candid refl...
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Season 1
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Episode 7
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1:13:11

Are We Actually Compatible? A Queer Couple Takes the Ultimate Relationship Quiz
In this episode of Wives Not Sisters, Alix and Kayla put their relationship to the test with a compatibility quiz led by producer Lex. From cover-stealing confessions to worst vacations, love languages, chores, intimacy, and financial ...
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Season 1
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Episode 6
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1:11:09

Our Queer Fertility Journey: IUI, IVF, Pregnancy Loss, and Choosing Surrogacy
In this episode of Wives Not Sisters, Alix and Kayla unpack the “propaganda we’re not falling for”—from self-help catchphrases to fitness influencers and even avocado toast—before diving deep into their three-year fertility journey. They share ...
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1:10:26
