Wives Not Sisters
A playful, unfiltered podcast where a married wlw couple dives into the chaos of modern relationships, pop culture, queer lore, and all the little things most people wouldn’t admit out loud.
Wives Not Sisters is a queer-led podcast where marriage meets humor, honesty, and a little too much sharing but in the best way. We’re here to normalize nuance in relationships -- from romantic, platonic, familial, and everything in between- and to create a space where deep conversations and dumb jokes can coexist. Through real talk, playful debates, and just enough oversharing, we’re building a community that’s reflective, ridiculous, and radically relatable.
Episodes
36 episodes
Masc And Femme Beauty Standards
What does it actually mean to be masc or femme… and who decided the rules?In this episode, Alix & Kayla dive into one of the most unexpectedly heated topics in the Sister Wives community: masc vs. femme beauty stand...
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53:00
Aspyn Ovard is in a Throuple
Alix and Kayla are back with a quickie—but this one spirals into a very juicy conversation 👀In this episode, they dive into the internet drama surrounding a longtime influencer whose life took a major turn—from young marriage an...
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20:55
Girls Hooking Up With Girls
What actually counts as sexy… and what’s just awkward?In this episode, Alix & Kayla dive into a spicy (and very funny) conversation about lesbian sex, flirting, and the little moments that can either turn up the heat or comp...
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1:02:59
WLW Couple Reacts To Heated Rivalry
There’s one very gay show everyone seems to be talking about right now… so naturally, Alix & Kayla haven’t watched it.In this quickie episode, they dive into the internet’s latest obsession — “Heated Rivalry.” From th...
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12:28
Bi Girls With Husbands
Alix & Kayla dive into one of the most requested topics from the Sister Wives community: the experience of bi women in relationships with male partners. After asking their audience for stories and questions, they unpack everything from “all...
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1:02:51
Becca Moore & Zoe Boyd DM Drama
What’s worse: sending a cringe DM… or fumbling someone you already married in your head?In this Quickie episode, Alix & Kayla break down the viral DM moment between Becca Moore and Zoe Boyd that divided the internet. When a flirty (...
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15:58
Understanding Detransition: Real Experiences from Queer and Trans Voices
In this episode, Alix & Kayla explore stories from people who have transitioned and later detransitioned, unpacking the deeply personal, emotional, and complex experiences behind those journeys. From informed consent and puberty to trauma, ...
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1:20:31
Cat Missal is Gay & Tell Me Lies Finale Reaction
Did the Tell Me Lies finale actually deliver… or are we all just emotionally attached to chaos?In this quickie episode, Alix & Kayla break down the Tell Me Lies finale—spoilers included—and unpack everything from to...
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16:40
WLW Travel: What It’s Really Like Traveling the World as a Married Lesbian Couple
Why does queer dating sometimes feel like relearning everything from scratch?In this episode, Alix & Kayla talk about the strange, funny, and sometimes emotional reality of navigating attraction, identity, and dating after stepping o...
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1:01:07
OMG…My First Time Hooking Up With Another Woman
What is it actually like the first time you’re with a woman?In this episode, Alix & Kayla talk about first times with girls — the magical ones, the awkward ones, the confusing ones, and the ones that quietly change everything. Drawi...
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54:27
The Body Image Episode: Millennial Women, Diet Culture & Gender Expression
What does body image look like when you’re queer, partnered, confident… and still unlearning everything you were taught?In this episode, Alix & Kayla get deeply honest about body image, desire, and self-perception inside queer relati...
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1:02:44
I'm WLW, But I'd Never Date A Woman
In this episode, Alix & Kayla unpack one of the most controversial queer takes on the internet: being attracted to women, sleeping with women, but not wanting to date or marry them. Is it preference, internalized homophobia, avoidance, or j...
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Season 1
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Episode 24
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57:09
I Lost 50k Followers When I Came Out
What happens when you come out online—and thousands of people decide they’re done with you?In this episode, Alix & Kayla unpack cancel culture, internet outrage, and the emotional, financial, and personal fallout of coming out public...
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Season 1
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Episode 23
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1:12:36
Should Straight People Be Allowed In Gay Spaces?
In this episode, married queers Alix & Kayla debate one of the most polarizing topics in LGBTQ+ culture—from gay bars and lesbian parties to allies, baby gays, and the future of community spaces. It’s thoughtful, funny, deeply personal… and...
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Season 1
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Episode 22
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50:32
What's With All The WLW Breakups Lately?
Why does it feel like every WLW couple is breaking up right now?In this episode, Alix and Kayla unpack the recent wave of WLW breakups—from emotional burnout and attachment styles to visibility pressure, queer dating dynamics,...
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Season 1
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Episode 21
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56:50
Cheating Stories in 3, 2, 1…
Is it cheating… or just crossing a line?Alix and Kayla kick off the new year from Nicaragua by playing "Cheating or No?" —breaking down gray-area relationship scenarios like shared playlists, DMs, flirting, emotional affairs, and ...
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Season 1
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Episode 20
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48:05
Is This Female Friendship or Gay AF? Untangling Homoerotic WLW Dynamics
Are homoerotic friendships a canon queer experience? 🌈Recording from their new studio in Nicaragua, Alix and Kayla dive into homoerotic WLW friendships—the kind that blur the line between “best friend” and “something more.” From red/...
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Season 1
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Episode 19
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1:08:53
Chosen Family, Holidays, and Saying No to Expectations
Family, queerness, religion, and the holidays—this episode goes deep. Alix and Kayla open up about navigating strained family relationships, missed weddings, religious rejection, reconciliation, and what it really takes to protect your peace as...
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Season 1
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Episode 18
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1:19:31
Lore: Caitlyn Jenner
In this juicy, long-form episode, Alix and Kayla go deep into Caitlyn Jenner’s childhood, gender dysphoria, Olympic fame, marriages, parenting issues, transition timeline, political contradictions, and why the public remains so divided. Honest,...
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Season 1
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Episode 17
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1:20:12
When Queer Love Changes: Trans Partners, Privilege & Progress
This week on Wives Not Sisters, Alix & Kayla dive into your juiciest queer write-in questions—identity shifts, relationship changes, generational LGBTQ+ tensions, age-gap love, and what really counts as “queer representation.” It’s honest, ...
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Season 1
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Episode 16
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55:04
WLW Lore: Caroline Calloway
Alix and Kayla dive deep into the wild, chaotic, endlessly fascinating lore of Caroline Calloway — from Instagram fame and ghostwritten captions to book-deal drama, retreat controversies, and the blurred lines between “scam,” self-mythol...
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Season 1
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Episode 15
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1:20:00
Two Wives, One Wallet: Love, Finances and Your Money Confessions
If you’ve ever argued about groceries, avoided showing your partner your skincare receipts, or wondered how to merge finances without losing your mind, this one’s for you! From $300 facials to $3,000 handbags, Venmo-requesting girlfriends, U-Ha...
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Season 1
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Episode 14
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1:04:04
The TERF Talk
In this episode, Alix & Kayla dive into the internet discourse that blew up:Are lesbians allowed to have dating preferences—specifically around bi women or trans women—without being labeled discriminatory or TERFs? Check...
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Season 1
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Episode 13
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1:07:16
How Problematic is The L Word?!
In this queer culture deep-dive, Alix and Kayla revisit The L Word — the iconic show that shaped lesbian visibility for an entire generation. From nostalgic favorites to problematic storylines, they unpack what the series got right (an...
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Season 1
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Episode 12
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