Wives Not Sisters
A playful, unfiltered podcast where a married wlw couple dives into the chaos of modern relationships, pop culture, queer lore, and all the little things most people wouldn’t admit out loud.
Wives Not Sisters is a queer-led podcast where marriage meets humor, honesty, and a little too much sharing but in the best way. We’re here to normalize nuance in relationships -- from romantic, platonic, familial, and everything in between- and to create a space where deep conversations and dumb jokes can coexist. Through real talk, playful debates, and just enough oversharing, we’re building a community that’s reflective, ridiculous, and radically relatable.
Wives Not Sisters
Aspyn Ovard is in a Throuple
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Alix and Kayla are back with a quickie—but this one spirals into a very juicy conversation 👀
In this episode, they dive into the internet drama surrounding a longtime influencer whose life took a major turn—from young marriage and mommy-vlogger perfection to divorce, coming out, and now… a rumored (and confirmed?) throuple.
They unpack everything:
- The timeline of her relationship and coming out
- The internet’s reaction (supportive, confused, and very judgmental)
- The complexity of labels like “lesbian,” “bi,” and “fluid”
- What it actually means to be in a throuple
- Whether polyamory is comparable to queer identity
- And the real-life logistics of relationships that don’t follow the norm
Plus, Alix and Kayla share their own takes on monogamy vs. non-monogamy, jealousy, parenting in unconventional relationships, and whether a throuple could ever work for them.
It’s messy, thoughtful, funny, and full of questions we’re all kind of wondering…
👉 Would you ever be in a throuple?
👉 Do labels matter in modern dating?
👉 And can relationships like this actually work long-term?
Let’s talk about it.
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