Wives Not Sisters
A playful, unfiltered podcast where a married wlw couple dives into the chaos of modern relationships, pop culture, queer lore, and all the little things most people wouldn’t admit out loud.
Wives Not Sisters is a queer-led podcast where marriage meets humor, honesty, and a little too much sharing but in the best way. We’re here to normalize nuance in relationships -- from romantic, platonic, familial, and everything in between- and to create a space where deep conversations and dumb jokes can coexist. Through real talk, playful debates, and just enough oversharing, we’re building a community that’s reflective, ridiculous, and radically relatable.
Wives Not Sisters
We're Getting Divorced
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What actually counts as a divorceable offense… and what’s just relationship growing pains?
In this episode, Alix & Kayla dive into one of the most complex (and very requested) topics from the Sister Wives community: divorce. From lighthearted “would you leave me for this?” scenarios to deeply personal listener stories, they unpack what really pushes relationships to the breaking point—and what might still be worth working through.
The conversation starts off chaotic (as always) with a game of “divorceable offense or not,” covering everything from annoying habits and phone snooping to bigger issues like emotional disconnection, broken trust, and feeling more like roommates than partners. But things quickly shift into deeper territory as they read real submissions from listeners navigating divorce in all its forms.
They explore the quiet heartbreak of falling out of love, the complicated reality of staying “for the kids,” and the guilt, growth, and self-awareness that can come from infidelity. Along the way, they also talk about late-in-life coming out stories, what honesty in a marriage really looks like, and whether divorce should ever be “off the table.”
Through humor, personal experiences, and a lot of honest reflection, Alix & Kayla break down the gray areas of long-term relationships—the parts that aren’t always dramatic, but still change everything.
It’s emotional, messy, surprisingly funny, and deeply relatable—just the way we like it.
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