Wives Not Sisters
A playful, unfiltered podcast where a married wlw couple dives into the chaos of modern relationships, pop culture, queer lore, and all the little things most people wouldn’t admit out loud.
Wives Not Sisters is a queer-led podcast where marriage meets humor, honesty, and a little too much sharing but in the best way. We’re here to normalize nuance in relationships -- from romantic, platonic, familial, and everything in between- and to create a space where deep conversations and dumb jokes can coexist. Through real talk, playful debates, and just enough oversharing, we’re building a community that’s reflective, ridiculous, and radically relatable.
Wives Not Sisters
Does My Ex Girlfriend Listen To My Podcast?
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In this Quickie episode, Alix & Kayla spiral into one of the most accidentally hilarious conversations yet after realizing an ex might be lurking on their podcast TikTok. What starts as a simple “wait… does she listen?” quickly turns into a full-blown conversation about exes, boundaries, social media stalking, and the very lesbian art of never fully disappearing from each other’s lives.
From suspicious TikTok profile recommendations to the absolute chaos of accidentally following an ex’s entire friend group on Instagram and LinkedIn (yes, really), they unpack the difference between harmless curiosity and crossing a boundary. Along the way, they revisit one of the most painfully funny stories from early in their relationship: trying to cut ties with an ex who just would not stop reaching out.
They also get into the bigger questions behind it all:
Is it normal to check up on an ex?
Would you listen to their podcast just once?
And where does curiosity end and creeping begin?
It’s messy, hilarious, slightly mortifying, and deeply lesbian in the most relatable way possible.
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