Wives Not Sisters
A playful, unfiltered podcast where a married wlw couple dives into the chaos of modern relationships, pop culture, queer lore, and all the little things most people wouldn’t admit out loud.
Wives Not Sisters is a queer-led podcast where marriage meets humor, honesty, and a little too much sharing but in the best way. We’re here to normalize nuance in relationships -- from romantic, platonic, familial, and everything in between- and to create a space where deep conversations and dumb jokes can coexist. Through real talk, playful debates, and just enough oversharing, we’re building a community that’s reflective, ridiculous, and radically relatable.
Wives Not Sisters
The Wives Are Having A Baby!!!!!
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We're finally sharing the news we've been holding close to our hearts. ❤️
After months away, Alix & Kayla are back to explain where they've been—and why. In this deeply personal episode, they open up about the life-changing journey that's been happening behind the scenes: after nearly four years of infertility, pregnancy loss, and navigating the emotional rollercoaster of surrogacy, they're finally expecting a baby.
But alongside the excitement comes a difficult decision. They talk honestly about the fear that still lingers after loss, the complicated emotions of becoming parents through surrogacy, and why this next chapter has forced them to reevaluate everything—from careers and social media to privacy, boundaries, and what they want family life to look like.
They also share why they're pressing pause on the podcast, what they've loved most about building this community, and why stepping away feels both heartbreaking and necessary. Throughout the episode, there's plenty of laughter, second-guessing, existential spirals, and heartfelt gratitude for the Sister Wives who have supported them from the very beginning.
This isn't goodbye forever—it’s simply the beginning of a brand new chapter. Thank you for being part of our story. We can't wait to share more when the time feels right. 🤍
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