Reflective Parenting Podcast
What if one book could help you see yourself more clearly as a parent?
As parents, we're constantly learning. We listen to podcasts, read books, and consume endless advice online, but real growth happens when we pause long enough to reflect on what we're learning and what it means for our own lives.
Welcome to The Reflective Parenting Podcast, a parenting book club led by neuroscientist, international speaker, mom of three, and founder of Curious Neuron, Dr. Cindy Hovington.
Each month, we'll explore a new book together and reflect on the ideas that can help us better understand ourselves, our emotions, our relationships, and our parenting. Every week, I'll share reflections, insights from neuroscience, and practical takeaways to help you become more self-aware, manage stress more effectively, navigate conflict with greater confidence, and show up as the parent you want to be.
This isn't a book summary podcast. It's an invitation to slow down as parents, think more deeply, and grow alongside your children.
Because becoming a better parent isn't about consuming more information; it's about reflecting on it with me by your side.
Find out which book I will be covering next month:
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Join the private group on Facebook:
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Purchase my course The Emotionally Aware Parent.
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Reflective Parenting Podcast
Dr. Cheng Qian: Should my child see a therapist?
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In today’s episode we are joined by Dr. Cheng Qian, Stanford & Harvard trained Clinical Psychologist. We speak about all things difficult behaviors. Specifically Dr. Qian gives useful, effective and simple tips & tricks to deal with your child’s difficult behaviors. Here’s a preview of what we talked about:
- 4:03 - When to seek professional help for tantrums
- 6:47 - What can a parent expect in a therapist’s office
- 10:32 - How do we teach our kids how to comply or listen
- 13:25 - How to deal with a child who won’t clean up their playroom, ever
- 16:51 - How to use praise and rewards in an effective way
- 19:57 - How to deal with biting, hitting, yelling and throwing things depending on your child’s age
- 27:19 - What to do after a child comes out of a tantrum
- 28:39 - How do emotions and emotion regulation skills play into difficult situations
- 33:54 - Once you notice a pattern in your child’s misbehaving, how do you implement change
- 36:41 - Great tips for bedtime
- 42:35 - How to choose a child therapist or psychologist
- 49:40 - What if I’m doing the work, but my child’s tantrums are getting worse
- 51:04 - What is my role as a parent in my child’s tantrums
Find the podcast summary page here.
Join Dr. Qian on Instagram here
How to build a calming corner
Watch this interview on YouTube:
https://youtu.be/bCsG6QW9ZYY
Start your journey to becoming emotionally aware:
Step 1: Join our Facebook page:
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https://curiousneuron.com/podcast/
Step 2: Get your FREE emotional awareness training for parents and kids below (comes with a poster, workbook and video):
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w4iEbFRZ5QQ&t=12s
Step 3: Join our course for $99, The Emotionally Aware Parent or join the next 8 week group cohort (starting in September 2026)
https://curiousneuron.com/reflective-parent-club/
Or email me info@curiousneuron.com to book emotional training sessions for your organization.