Reflective Parenting by Curious Neuron
Parents don’t snap for one reason — they snap because stress builds faster than awareness.
The Reflective Parenting Podcast, hosted by neuroscientist and mom of three Dr. Cindy Hovington, helps parents understand what’s happening inside them before they snap and why recognizing it sooner is the key to change.
Through personal reflections and conversations with clinicians and experts, the podcast explores why parenting feels so intense, why insight often disappears under stress, and what it means to become a reflective parent.
A reflective parent isn’t perfect or calm all the time. They notice sooner, recover faster, and slowly build more trust in how they show up — even on hard days.
This podcast is your invitation to pause, reflect, and feel less alone.
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Reflective Parenting by Curious Neuron
Dr. Cheng Qian: Should my child see a therapist?
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In today’s episode we are joined by Dr. Cheng Qian, Stanford & Harvard trained Clinical Psychologist. We speak about all things difficult behaviors. Specifically Dr. Qian gives useful, effective and simple tips & tricks to deal with your child’s difficult behaviors. Here’s a preview of what we talked about:
- 4:03 - When to seek professional help for tantrums
- 6:47 - What can a parent expect in a therapist’s office
- 10:32 - How do we teach our kids how to comply or listen
- 13:25 - How to deal with a child who won’t clean up their playroom, ever
- 16:51 - How to use praise and rewards in an effective way
- 19:57 - How to deal with biting, hitting, yelling and throwing things depending on your child’s age
- 27:19 - What to do after a child comes out of a tantrum
- 28:39 - How do emotions and emotion regulation skills play into difficult situations
- 33:54 - Once you notice a pattern in your child’s misbehaving, how do you implement change
- 36:41 - Great tips for bedtime
- 42:35 - How to choose a child therapist or psychologist
- 49:40 - What if I’m doing the work, but my child’s tantrums are getting worse
- 51:04 - What is my role as a parent in my child’s tantrums
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