The Whole Therapist
Leaving the theorizing out and exploring this strange phenomenon of being a human and a therapist. Abby and Kellee explore the embodied experience of neuroscience and authenticity in the therapy room.
Episodes
78 episodes
Honoring Your Own Inner Celebrity
Honoring Your Own Inner Celebrity In this episode Kellee and Abby explore “celebrity therapists.” They talk through how the field looks to these therapists, but in doing this may miss other gifted healers who don’t have the same sta...
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26:23
The Problem with CE's: A Critical Look at Continuing Ed in the Field
Kellee and Abby dive into the problems with CEU’s across the field as a whole in this episode, but move specifically to discuss the Association of Play Therapy’s (APT) 12-hour in-person CEU requirement. Abby and Kellee express their opinion aro...
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Season 6
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Episode 5
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23:15
Applying for an Internship
Abby and Kellee talk through basics of looking for, applying for, and interviewing for your internship placement. They discuss the use of AI, and ways to use it appropriately in this process. Topics Touched on:Rupi Kau...
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Season 6
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Episode 5
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19:00
Therapists' Relationship with Goodbyes
Abby and Kellee explore how grief often accompanies goodbyes, and that goodbyes can also hold happiness and hope. They notice how endings and goodbyes can feel different for each therapist and each therapist/client dyad. They reflect on their o...
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Season 6
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Episode 3
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27:14
Holding Space for Marginalized Clients
Abby and Kellee recorded on 1/31/25 and began exploring how to hold space for marginalized clients who are impacted by executive orders and fear of or actual detainments of themselves and loved ones. Topics Touched o...
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Season 6
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Episode 2
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24:34
New Year, New Healer?
Abby and Kellee jump into a new season with the new year. They explore the ebbs and flows of their rhythms over the last 5 years of recordings, and how they have shifted as healers. Abby and Kellee highlight the importance of slowing down, comm...
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Season 6
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Episode 1
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21:12
Humility, Arrogance, and Therapists Oh My!
Abby and Kellee explore superiority, humility, arrogance, and how they show up for therapists. They give examples of how they have and do fall down this slippery slope (even while they record this episode) Abby and Kellee discuss the therapists...
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Season 5
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Episode 5
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24:47
Giving Clients Congruence with Our Internalized Community
Abby and Kellee start to explore the word accountability and sift through their intention for the episode. They come to name self-reflection and community. Abby and Kellee talk authenticity and explore internalizing nurture from those in their ...
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Season 5
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Episode 4
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22:00
Moving Away from 'Topic of The Week' Therapy
Kellee and Abby revisit the concept of 'process over content' in therapy, and explore what is bringing them Joy over the last few years since beginning the podcast. They dive into what may be leading therapists into content therapy versus proce...
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15:25
Withholding: Are You Colluding with Avoidance?
Abby and Kellee are back after some big technological struggles. They welcome the community back in and explore the theme of, withholding. They explore withholding EMDR from clients and withholding the truth from clients. Are therapists withhol...
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Season 5
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Episode 2
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21:47
Exploring Attraction to Our Clients
Abby and Kellee get brave and venture into a topic that doesn’t seem openly talked about, feeling attraction to our clients. They share their own experience of this happening, normalize this experience, and explore the neuroscience that is happ...
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Season 5
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Episode 1
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20:35
Bravery and Risk: How We Show Up in the Therapy Room
Abby and Kellee use this episode to talk through some recent experiences that required Bravery in their own lives and how we relate to Risk both personally and professionally. They explore noticing how 'being brave' and 'taking risks' sho...
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20:13
Do We Love Our Clients: A Conversation Between Therapists
Kellee and Abby are back from their holiday break! Join them for the Season 5 in another conversation, all about looooooove 💗. Their exploration is prompted by the question, “do we love our clients?” and, "must we?" Kellee and Abby muse about ...
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Season 5
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Episode 1
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18:48
Exploration of Pregnancy and Being a Therapist
Kellee is going on maternity leave! This episode explores the ways in which therapists who experience pregnancy can be impacted and transformed as practitioners and humans. Abby and Kellee explore their own personal experience with pregnancy in...
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19:04
Time to Take Your Time Off
This episode explores all the ways in which we therapists don’t take the time off we need while encouraging our clients to take time off for self-care. Abby and Kellee explore their own personal struggles with taking time off, including the mes...
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Season 4
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Episode 8
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14:33
The Deeply Feeling Therapist
Abby and Kellee use this episode to share some announcements and talk through some recent stories in their own lives that have contributed to deep feelings showing up personally and professionally. They explore noticing deep feelings that show ...
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23:06
Let's Talk - Nonverbal Communication
Abby and Kellee touch on how important non-verbal communication is to the healing process for our clients in the therapy space. They share how words are the least important part of the healing process, and ways that non-verbal communication is ...
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Season 4
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Episode 6
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31:22
Feedback: The Good, The Bad, & The Ugly
Abby and Kellee lean into discussing recent feedback they got on this podcast, and the parallel process that occurs in the therapy space. They explore work from Dan Siegel around “linkage and differentiation.” The two also discuss attachment st...
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Season 4
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Episode 5
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27:32
At the Edge of Our Own Work
Abby and Kellee spend time wandering through this episode exploring patience with parts of self for our clients, and for ourselves. They untangle the definition of patience, and what this really means in our work with clients. The two name the ...
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Season 4
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Episode 4
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24:12
Attuning to the Context
Abby and Kellee spend time exploring how important the context of our client’s lives are. They discuss being attuned with that context versus pushing feelings away, offering coping skills and offering quick fixes. Being with is identified as th...
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Season 4
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Episode 3
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24:23
Finding Your Therapeutic Home. Finding Who You'll Journey With.
Abby and Kellee welcome listeners into community. They explore looking for a therapeutic home for therapists and clients alike. Abby and Kellee discuss balancing many therapeutic homes, finding “your people,” and journeying with them. They shar...
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Season 4
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Episode 2
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17:18
Welcome to Season 4: Exploring Wonder and Awe
Abby and Kellee welcome listeners to season 4. The two share what they have been up to and begin to explore how therapists are in the presence of awe almost every day according to what Dacher Keltner defines as awe. Topics Touche...
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Season 4
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Episode 1
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24:45
Bidding Season 3 Farewell
Abby and Kellee bid listeners farewell as they end season 3. They reflect on the year, talking about love and loss for clients, supervisees, consultees, friends, family, and themselves. They of course weave in IPNB and even some EMDR around the...
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Season 3
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Episode 18
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32:39
Touch in the Therapy Room
Abby and Kellee broach the topic of using touch in the therapy space with both adult and child clients. They discuss the healing benefits of touch from various therapeutic modalities. Abby and Kellee talk through the sacredness of wordless heal...
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25:24
Taking it Personal in the Therapy Space
Abby and Kellee spend time exploring how we know when we as therapists are taking clients' progress, lack of progress, emotions, behaviors, etc. personally. They share their own stories of taking it personal, and strategies that can support the...
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Season 3
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Episode 17
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25:10