ADHD-Friendly
Join Patty as she uses her ADHD-friendly lens to explore ways to create more ease for anyone impacted by ADHD.
ADHD-Friendly exists to support individuals impacted by ADHD to tilt the playing field and THRIVE with ADHD. Patty shares ADHD-friendly products, services, tools, systems, books, and more- all focused on closing the gap between struggling and thriving!
Episodes
238 episodes
The ADHD-Friendly Guide to House Hunting #238
House hunting with ADHD can quickly become overwhelming as details blur together and priorities get lost. In this episode, I share how using a simple spreadsheet helped me stay focused on what mattered most, track each home clearly, and make...
10 ADHD "No Brakes" Traps #237
If you’ve ever said “just one more” and couldn’t stop, you’re not alone. This episode breaks down why ADHD brains struggle with “brakes” and shares simple, ADHD-friendly strategies to help you pause before things spira...
Friends Don't Let Friends Mask Their ADHD #236
What if support didn’t mean trying harder—but feeling safer being yourself? Learn how ADHD masking impacts your energy, relationships, and self-worth—and what actually helps instead.PLUS: Hear the Book of the Week.
The Problem with To-Do Lists #235
To-do lists are supposed to help, but for ADHD brains, they often create overwhelm, avoidance, or get completely ignored. In this episode, we break down why to-do lists don’t work the way they’re “supposed to” and shar...
How to Finish What You Start #234
Ever feel like you start everything… but finish nothing? You’re not alone—and it’s not a motivation problem. In this episode, I explain why finishing tasks is uniquely challenging for ADHD brains and share simple, realistic tools (including ...
ADHD & "Out of Sight, Out of Mind" #233
Why Visibility Changes EverythingMany people with ADHD struggle with “out of sight, out of mind” due to differences in working memory and executive functions. Using simple, visible systems - what I call ISIM (In Sight, In Mind)...
Conscientiousness and ADHD #232
Why do people with ADHD often struggle with consistency, organization, and follow-through? In this episode, we explore the research on conscientiousness and ADHD, what it looks like in everyday life, and practical strategies that help ADHD b...
ADHD & Forgetting Names #231
Do you instantly forget someone’s name right after being introduced? Many adults with ADHD struggle with name recall due to working memory and retrieval challenges. In this episode, we explore the fascinating concept of proper name anomia, w...
Why Transitions Are So Hard with ADHD #230
Why are transitions so hard with ADHD? In this episode, we explore how ADHD impacts task switching, hyperfocus, executive functioning, and emotional regulation — and why moving from one activity to another can feel exhausting or even impossi...
How to Reset After an Avoidable ADHD Mistake #229
When you live with ADHD, sometimes you know exactly what to do, and still don’t do it. In this episode, I share a personal story about an avoidable mistake, the shame spiral that followed, and how I shifted from self-blame to self-support. P...
The Goldilocks Rule for ADHD #228
When schedules are too packed or too open, the brain gets flooded with decisions, leading to fatigue, avoidance, or paralysis. In this episode, we explore how “Goldilocksing” your schedule, (right-sizing it to fit your brain and energy), can...
Why Easy Feels Impossible w/ ADHD #227
Ever wonder why brushing your teeth, doing the dishes, or starting the laundry can feel strangely overwhelming? In this episode, we unpack why “simple” tasks aren’t always simple for the ADHD brain, and share practical, ADHD-friendly strateg...
Are You A Time Optimist? #226
Spoiler alert: You’re not bad at time… you’re just optimistic. This episode breaks down time optimism, how it sneaks into ADHD life, and practical, shame-free strategies to stop underestimating time and start feeling m...
Do You Have FOFO? #225
You probably heard of FOMO (Fear of Missing Out), but what about FOFO (Fear OF Finding Out)? FOFO is a common reason many of us will avoid getting recommended health screenings or make an appointment to get a strange mole checked out. It is ...
Why Your Routines Don't Stick #224
Did you set an intention for a routine in 2026, but are struggling now that the initial sparkle has worn off? ADHD brains prioritize novelty and stimulation. In this episode learn how to resparklize your routines so they work for your brain!...
Planning for the Future with ADHD #223
Planning for the future with ADHD can feel overwhelming because ADHD brains are wired to focus on the present moment. In this episode, we explore strategies that make future planning easier so we can move from intention into action with more...
The Myth of "Just Try Harder" #222
“Just try harder” sounds helpful, but for ADHD brains, it’s a myth that creates shame instead of progress. In this episode, we explore why effort alone doesn’t work with ADHD wiring and share practical, brain-friendly strategies to create mo...
Motivation Isn't the Problem! #221
In this episode, we explore why motivation isn’t a lack of willpower for ADHD brains - it’s a difference in how energy and dopamine work. I share research-backed insights and practical strategies to help you reframe motivation and harness yo...
Before You Set Goals- Do This! #220
Before jumping into new goals, it’s powerful to pause and look back at what actually worked for you over the past year. Our brains tend to forget wins and over-focus on what went wrong, so without a quick review, we set goals that don’t matc...
Holiday Lessons to Remember! #219
Our brains love to tell us we’ll remember everything from the holiday season — what worked, what didn’t, and the small tweaks that made a big difference — but we almost never do. We feel so confident in the moment that we don’t capture the l...
Happy Holidays! #218
A quick episode just in time for the final holidays of 2025. Hear some of Patty’s wins, a new author a friend recommended that she is enjoying, and more.PLUS: Hear this week’s pick for Book of the Week!Create ...
How ADHD Impacts Motivation #217
Waiting for the right amount of motivation is something many of us with ADHD have done… many, many times. The challenge is that ADHD brains struggle to get activated when we need them to- especially when tasks are tedious, boring, or overwhe...
The ADHD Guide to Small Talk #216
Small talk can feel exhausting or pointless for many people with ADHD. It often takes extra effort to focus, find the right words, or keep the conversation flowing. Executive function challenges like working memory, impulse control, and atte...
ADHD-Friendly's 2025 Favorite Things! #215
It’s that time of year again! It’s time for the 2025 ADHD-Friendly Favorite Things episode! Check out this episode to discover what made out list this year!PLUS: Hear this week’s pick for Book of the Week!Crea...
The Surprising Magic of a Tidy Nightstand #214
For ADHD brains, small areas of clutter can add to mental noise and stress, especially first thing in the morning or before bed. A quick declutter of your nightstand helps signal rest, order, and calm setting you up for better sleep and a sm...
