Confessions of a Recovering Micromanaging Perfectionist Martyr
As a mother of four and a self-proclaimed micromanaging - perfectionist - martyr, I constantly need to be reminded that control leaves me lonely, perfection can paralyze me, and caring for others over myself leads to resentment. Join me as I try to navigate being a structure-luvin' gal, in an absolutely chaotic household.
Confessions of a Recovering Micromanaging Perfectionist Martyr
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Summer Rewind #6: When My Children's Opinion Matters
What happens when a football game, a church Harvest Fair, and one impressively slammed car door collide? 🚗💥 An overtired Farmer Mags briefly loses track of which opinions actually need her attention. 🐑 In this episode, I share a parenting stand...
Summer Rewind #5: A Friggin' Break - Having Unrealistic Expectations Hurts Everyone
How much of my love depends on everyone—including me—behaving acceptably? 🤔 When unrealistic expectations collide with family life, I sometimes make a statement that hurts me more than anyone else. Enter one surprisingly sturdy Nerf gun. 😬 In t...
Summer Rewind #4: Rushing - 3 Ways I’m Going Nowhere Fast
Why does running late flip every one of my emotional switches? ⏰😬 On the way to my daughter’s appointment, I noticed micromanaging, perfectionism, and martyrdom all climbing into the car with me. This episode explores what rushing awakens in me...
Summer Rewind #3: Baking - What It's Taught Me About Being Both an Ingredient and a Baker
🍞 Are you an ingredient... or the baker? 😆 In this Summer Rewind, I'm revisiting a simple baking metaphor that helped me loosen my grip on all-or-nothing thinking. From control and teamwork to accepting different ways of doing things, this shor...
Summer Rewind #2: The Dangers of Expectations - Do NOT Pass to Your Running Back
🏈 What if the people in your life aren't letting you down... you're just asking them to play the wrong position? 🤔 In this Summer Rewind, I'm revisiting one of the most helpful discoveries from my recovery journey: the surprising connection bet...
