Divorce & Everything In Between
A podcast by coach and author Carla Da Costa for women who are separated and divorced where we get real about the healing and self-reflection journey that happens after a long-term relationship ends and the real self-empowerment journey that lies ahead.
Episodes
33 episodes
Why Do I Keep Attracting The Wrong Man In Love?
If this is your story please email me at hello@carladacosta.com to enquire how best to work with me.Options To Work With Me Professionally Below:AfterGlow my long-term support coaching container
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How To Be In A Healthy Balanced Union & Why You Haven't Attracted One In Your Life
As a woman were you the container in the relationship or were they? And where do you see your patterning having stemmed from FIRST.To enquire about my services please email me at hello@carladacosta.comOptions To Work With Me Profe...
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Why Being Strong, Successful & Independent As A Woman Brings Loneliness More Than It Does Love
If this is your story please email me at hello@carladacosta.com to enquire how best to work with me.Options To Work With Me Professionally Below:AfterGlow my long-term support coaching container
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Is Dating A Numbers Game?
Please listen to the end where I talk about why healthy, present love can trigger some of us who didn't grow up in a healthy, nurturing childhood environment.Posts As Mentioned In The Show Below:If you don't address your childhood...
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What Is The Feminine's Role Post-Separation?
This podcast is for women who are ready to stop chasing closure and start choosing themselves.Post-separation, the feminine role is not to fix, pursue, or over-explain. It is to become magnetic. To regulate her emotions, rebuild self-tru...
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Closing Out Your 2025
No denials that for many of us 2025 was a year of challenges and NOT the year you perhaps asked for or intended for yourself to have. But was it the one that needed to happen for you?My latest post on this letting go of 2025 energy can b...
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Welcome Back To The Podcast For 2026
A podcast a week for 2026 and I'm committing to it.In today's relaunch I'm sharing who I'm for and what to expect from me into 2026. I've changed, my voice has changed and I'm so excited for this year and what's to come here.As I ...
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EP 26: "I've Been Wrong'ed" - A Client's Story Of Being Left For Another Woman To Now Happier Than Ever
Thank you to this beautiful client for sharing so vulnerably with us her story of overcoming and moving on from an affair that then turned into a lasting relationship in her ex-husband's life.Clients in this situation always benefit from...
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EP 25: Navigating Love, Sex & The Dating Pool In 2025
In this episode I talk about the splitting of the dating pool and how to navigate this split personally if you are post your marriage ending and looking for or opening up to love.The 4 Points I Cover:- Shift Into Your Feminine Ene...
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EP 24: Leaning Back - The One Thing You Need To Do As A Woman
The Feminine Energy Of Leaning Back. Understanding Why You're Triggered to Lean In When The Masculine Shows Low Effort.To Learn How To Heal This Please Explore My Signature Coaching Method & Program
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EP 23: Personal Lessons I've Learnt In 2024
In this episode I share my personal lessons learnt in 2024.Breakdown:- My personal story.- Grit.- My health journey and changes.- My own love story.- My most courageous journey.- Navigating the masculine personally a...
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EP 22: Maintaining Facades Over Christmas, What To Look For In Love After A Marriage Ends. A Radio Interview With Dave Sutherland From 2SM Radio.
Please enjoy this radio interview with Dave Sutherland. He reached out to me after I had been on his show several times in the past to talk about the pressure cooker of Christmas on relationships and marriages.To explore my books please...
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EP 21: What I Really Want You To Break Up With To Be Free & To Feel Peace
Yes I'm back! Please enjoy this podcast and below you will find the links to the programs I described in the podcast.These are the things to be truly free. Free doesn't immediately come just because we have left a person, or because a m...
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EP 20: 7 Signs You Have Blocked Feminine Energy
Today in this episode I'm talking about how to know if your feminine energy is blocked. Perhaps we could even add to that not only blocked, but wounded. This is something I talk about with my clients regularly as so many of my clients c...
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EP 19: “Strong” - Why I Don’t Want My Clients Identifying With Being This
Today I’m talking about something that I discuss regularly with my clients.Why I don’t want them to identify with the word “strong” and what I would rather they identify with.A shift in language, but a powerful one.
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EP 18: Why I Do This Business & Why I Give A F__k About You
My journey of grace and intentional action that has led me where I am today since leaving my marriage in 2016.In this episode I talk about:• Who I was before I left my marriage (hint very much co-dependent and down-trodden in myself...
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EP 17: Are You In Your Feminine Or Masculine Energy In Relationships?
Today we're talking about a topic that might seem obscure to some, but a topic that is actually one of the biggest determinators of the quality of life, health and intimate relationship that you have. Whether you are predominately in yo...
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EP 16: How I Became A Divorce Coach - Following Our Bliss To Our Purpose
My journey of how I became a divorce coach to time with my announcement of being named as a finalist for Relationship Coach of the decade by the Beautiful You Coaching Academy, the academy I graduated from in 2015. And where I cove...
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EP 15: How One Woman Overcame The Clichéd End To Her Marriage & Became An Entirely Different Woman In The Process
Today I want to introduce you to the beautiful Jules a past client of mine and a woman I have watched absolutely transform in her personal and professional life since we started working together through my Newly Divorced program in January 2022...
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EP 14: 'Successful' Marriages Without Fulfillment. Are You In One? And How to Navigate This Dynamic If You Are.
In today's episode I am speaking on something I am seeing over and over again presenting to me in my clientele.Clients who are in 'successful' marriages. Who outwardly have everything but who on the inside are emotionally disconnected f...
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EP 13: Wounding On Wounding. Do You Have This?
Wounding on wounding is a phenomenon that I see in my clients who haven't addressed the reasons why their marriage ended and have launched into new relationships only to be wounded again for a shade of the same reasons again. Clients co...
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EP 12: Course Correcting Your Life After A Divorce
Today I'm sharing my own personal journey and reflections to course correct my life after leaving my marriage in 2016 and the even more pronounced reflections that I've had over the last 6-7 months, since moving interstate to the other side of ...
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Ep 11: The Common Mistakes I See Single Women (And Men) Make And What I Wish They Were Doing Instead
Does life feel like it never really changes for you since your marriage ended? Despite your best efforts.This is why!Learn more about the program I talk about inside this podcast here:
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Ep 10: My Three Favourite Manifestation Techniques
Today I'm sharing my favourite ways to attract and manifest what I desire into my life. You may not be aware but alongside being a Divorce Coach I am also a certified Law of Attraction Coach.I have been called a powerful manifestor, a U...
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Ep 9: Why Do I Keep Attracting Emotionally Unavailable, Narcissistic & Toxic Men?
Chatting today about an often asked question that I hear. “Why do I keep attracting emotionally unavailable men? And what does this say about me?”Hope this one is enlightening for you that while it says a lot, it might actually say more...
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