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Female Fluence
This is a podcast where women empower women. There is a point in our lives where we need to let go of who society wants us to be, but instead embrace our true selves so we can live authentic lives. This will be a safe place Ready to rediscover the YOU beneath the "shoulds"?
This is Female Fluence, your go-to empowering podcast where together, we ditch the expectations and ignite our authentic selves.
Society throws a lot at us, telling us who we "should" be. But what about who you *truly* are? Here, you'll find a supportive sisterhood dedicated to shedding those labels and embracing your unique fire.
This is a judgment-free zone. We're all on a journey of self-discovery, and we'll learn and grow from each other's experiences. Whether you're ready to reclaim a lost passion, silence your inner critic, or redefine success on your own terms, you'll find the inspiration and tools you need right here.
Join us as we explore:
*Breaking free from societal pressures
*Reconnecting with your passions and purpose
*Building confidence and self-love
*Creating an authentic and fulfilling life
This is your invitation to step into your power. Let's rise together and make that journey without judgment but instead grow & learn from one another in the process.
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Female Fluence
Emotional Dysmorphia: Healing Trauma and Reclaiming Self-Worth with Dr. Nicki Monti
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Self-worth is not something you earn. It’s something you remember.
In this deeply honest episode, Pearl Mashour sits down with Dr. Nicki J. Monti, psychotherapist, author, and trauma healing expert, to explore emotional dysmorphia, unresolved trauma, addiction patterns, and the journey back to self-love.
Dr. Monti shares her powerful story of childhood trauma, addiction, divorce, widowhood, and rebuilding her identity after years of believing she was unworthy of love. Through radical self-healing and emotional awareness, she transformed survival patterns into emotional strength, compassion, and purpose.
This episode dives into trauma recovery, emotional inheritance, vulnerability, breaking self-sabotage cycles, and how to truly heal from the inside out. It’s a conversation about moving beyond survival mode and stepping into emotional resilience, boundaries, and authentic self-worth.
Guest Spotlight
Dr. Nicki J. Monti is a private-practice psychotherapist known for her work on reality television including Keeping Up With the Kardashians and Millionaire Matchmaker. She is the author of The Divine Traumedy of Nicki Joy: A True Grime Tale, a memoir that chronicles her journey through trauma, addiction, loss, and ultimate transformation.
Her work focuses on trauma healing, emotional resilience, relationship patterns, addiction recovery, and rebuilding self-worth after adversity.
Key Insights
- Emotional dysmorphia distorts how we see our value and worth
- Trauma patterns silently shape relationships and self-sabotage cycles
- Defensiveness blocks intimacy and vulnerability
- Time alone does not heal trauma, intentional healing does
- Self-compassion and boundaries are foundational to emotional freedom
Episode Summary
This episode of the Female Fluence Podcast explores how trauma impacts identity, relationships, addiction patterns, and self-worth. Dr. Nicki Monti explains why healing requires more than pushing through pain and how emotional inheritance can be transformed rather than repeated.
Listeners will gain insight into recognizing unresolved trauma patterns, moving beyond functional addiction cycles, and replacing self-criticism with self-compassion. This conversation is a powerful reminder that healing begins when we stop betraying ourselves and start choosing self-respect, vulnerability, and emotional accountability.
Transformation is possible. Self-worth is reclaimable. And healing is always available.
Connect with Dr. Nicki Monti
🌐 Website: stucknomore.com
📸 Instagram: @drnickimonti
📘 Facebook: @drnickimonti
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Pearl Mashour is a Master Women Empowerment Coach, Life Coach & Multiple Subject Credentialed Teacher.
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