Be A Better You
The Be a Better You Podcast (formerly The Emotional Abuse Recovery Podcast) is hosted by Best Selling Author and Certified Rapid Reprogramming™ Coach, Allison K. Dagney. As a young adult, I met a man who I believed was the love of my life. We got married quickly and brought three kids into the world. But something was wrong. I was miserable. And I blamed myself for all the problems in our marriage. What I didn't know, was that I was being emotional abused by who I believe is a narcissist. I decided it was time to break free and step into the person I was always meant to be — confident and free to live the life I’ve always imagined.
I escaped, and I turned my personal story of transformation into a memoir. And now I coach women all over the world to help them transform their pain into empowerment, experience peace and joy, and start living life like never before.
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Be A Better You
Episode 155: 10 Signs Your Nervous System Still Thinks You’re in That Relationship
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You left the relationship—but your body still hasn’t.
In this powerful episode, I’m walking you through 10 signs your nervous system still thinks you’re in that emotionally abusive relationship, even if it ended weeks, months, or years ago. If you’ve been struggling with overexplaining, shutdown, anxiety around texts, or people-pleasing… it’s not just your personality. It’s trauma living in your body.
This episode is for the woman who’s healing from narcissistic abuse, emotional manipulation, or toxic relationship patterns, and keeps asking herself, “Why do I still feel stuck?”
We’ll explore how trauma responses like hypervigilance, freezing in conversations, and chronic self-doubt are not character flaws—but protective strategies your body learned to survive. And most importantly, I’ll share how you can start retraining your nervous system to feel safe again.
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