Episode 176: Why Nothing Changes When You're Trying So Hard

Are you working so hard to heal but still feel stuck in the same painful cycles? In this episode of Be A Better You Podcast, Allison breaks down why nothing changes when you’re “trying so hard.” You’ll learn why affirmations, journaling, and willpower don’t fix the root cause, and how your subconscious mind is wired to repeat old patterns — making you feel defeated, broken, or like you’ll never move forward. 

Allison shares real examples of the beliefs that keep women trapped after emotional abuse and explains how to finally reprogram your brain so healing feels easier. If you’re tired of overthinking, rumination, and self-doubt, this conversation will give you hope and practical steps to break free.