Episode 178: Struggling With Indecision & How to Build Self Trust

Struggling to make decisions after emotional abuse? You’re not alone. Survivors often face crippling self-doubt, fear of making the “wrong” choice, and the exhausting cycle of second-guessing themselves. In this episode of Be A Better You Podcast, host and subconscious reprogramming expert Allison K. Dagney explains why survivors get stuck in indecision, how abuse wires the brain to fear choice, and the exact steps you can take to rebuild self-trust.

You’ll hear real client and listener stories about tough choices—like whether to store or toss belongings during a big move, or what to do with an ex’s things—and the powerful lessons hidden inside. Allison also shares practical decision-making tools and reflective questions that help you move past fear, get unstuck, and finally feel confident in your own choices.

If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Why can’t I just decide?” this episode will show you the truth: you are not broken, you’re conditioned—and you can rewire that conditioning starting today.