Big Bros

Ep 134. Do You Keep Dating The Wrong Person?

Jeremy Tusia & Ilan Volchek

Do you ever stop and ask yourself why you’re drawn to people who are clearly bad for you? You swear off the avoidant types, the ones who only want one thing, the ones who don’t respect you, yet somehow you keep going back. It’s not stupidity or weakness. There’s usually something much deeper at play, rooted in the patterns you learned growing up. Until you understand that, you’ll keep mistaking familiarity for chemistry and calling dysfunction your type.

Join Big Bros, Jeremy and Ilan, as they explore why we’re often drawn to the wrong people. Expect to learn why love can feel impossible to receive when we doubt our own lovability, why those with abandonment wounds are often drawn to people who will abandon them, what happens on a biological level that wires us toward unhealthy attraction, how unresolved childhood relational scripts replay in our adult relationships, how to sit with the discomfort of healthy love when it feels unfamiliar, and much more.

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