Hanging Out 4ever

We couldn’t find a therapist, so we started a podcast. After 7 years of dating we nearly came to a breaking point and decided it was time to try something new, to talk about our feelings and record them. Our podcast is not the highlight reel of our relationship, it is our relationship, as authentic as possible. Dating and long term relationships can be difficult. Especially, when the internet seems so focused on only happy moments. We share our truth and hope it resonates with you and makes you feel less alone in the dating/ Long Term Relationship world.
Let's all figure this dating thing out together.✨
-Aja & Grant

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Podcasting since 2023 • 53 episodes

Hanging Out 4ever

Latest Episodes

350 Reasons to NEVER have kids ft Girl With The List (Abigail Porter)

This is a BIG ONE YALL.Most people have heard about Abigail Porter, aka The Girl With The List, the internets most iconic and influential child free person with over almost 350 reasons to never have children. If you've seen her, you kno...

August 18, 2026 • 1:05:21

My Husband is Obsessed with my BREASTMILK | Listener Letter

This is another Bestie-mail episode for the books..There's a lot of kinks and fetishes in the world and most of them I don't judge and hell even the one we discussed in this episode I don't judge but the way he went about it was INSANE....

August 04, 2026 • 54:24

How To: Never Fall Out of Love

Besties, our most asked question is "what is it like dating interracially?" but our second???!!"How have y'all been together for NINE years?"So we're finally answering it.This week we're talking about what a...

July 28, 2026 • 47:22

My Wife and I Are Polyamorous | Listener Letter!

WE'RE BACK WITH ANOTHER EPISODE OF BESTIE-MAILYes, this is later than our normal release time. Aja had jury duty. It sucked. but anywhooo,We're back with more dilemmas, more drama, and more people who need advice...

July 21, 2026 • 46:29

You need to date a “SIMP”

Besties, in this week’s episode, Aja invites you into the Ladies Lounge for a serious conversation about dating a guy other men would classify as a “simp.”Unfortunately, there’s a dominant narrative that men who “simp” for their women ar...

July 14, 2026 • 26:12

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Fan Mail

first time listening, have to say as an older(40/50)mixed couple I definitely resonated with your feelings about pregnancy, race interactions, etc.! We are newly married (10/1/25) and I struggle with saying a definite yes or no because my husband has some but not much interaction with raising a mixed child and being with a black woman and understanding what that all entails. Anyways. Please keep up the great podcast, will be a follower!

Caldwell, Idaho