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Hanging Out 4ever
We couldn’t find a therapist, so we started a podcast. After 7 years of dating we nearly came to a breaking point and decided it was time to try something new, to talk about our feelings and record them. Our podcast is not the highlight reel of our relationship, it is our relationship, as authentic as possible. Dating and long term relationships can be difficult. Especially, when the internet seems so focused on only happy moments. We share our truth and hope it resonates with you and makes you feel less alone in the dating/ Long Term Relationship world.
Let's all figure this dating thing out together.✨
-Aja & Grant
WATCH US ON YOUTUBE https://www.youtube.com/@HangingOut4ever
Episodes
41 episodes
Have You Ever Thought of Cheating on Me?
Have Grant and I ever thought of cheating on each other? And could he live without me?Over the last 30 days, we've gained a ton of new besties!! (Welcome in!!) so we figured that it would be cute and fun to do a lil couples quiz episode,...
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My Mother in Law Got Me PREGNANT | Monster–in–Law Listener Letters
Listener LettersWOOF, Besties — this one was rough. Some episodes we walk away from with a good chuckle and a lil bit of WTF energy, but this wasn't one of them. Monster-in-laws are everybody's nightmare, but these listen...
Dad, I'm Dating a White Guy
OK besties, in this episode we're answering a long standing question that many of you have asked what does my family specifically my Dad think of me dating a white guy? So our special guest is none of them my Dad, Michael and I sit down with hi...
We're Thinking of Getting Married!?
If you've been with us for a while you'll know that Aja used to not believe in marriage and was fine to just "hang out 4ever" with Grant. But apparently things have changed.They talk about they potential of getting married, the so...
How To Run a Strict Program with Your Man
Happy Sunday Bestie Babes! Welcome to the 'Ladies Lounge' a new mini series apart of the Hanging Out 4ever podcast with Aja where we keke, keep it real and talk everything about dating and dealing with men.Welcome to the first episode w...
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Is AI the Future of Women's Vibrators ft Morgan Hewett
She's building most controversial product to ever come out of Harvard Business School and it all revolves around women, pleasure and orgasms 👀Aja sat down with Morgan Hewett, founder of Devin Toys one of the first AI-powered sex tech com...
I Had to Become a Man in My Relationship (Before I Lost Her)
This episode was one we knew we had to have, and it was a long time coming. Grant opens up to Aja about the moments he realized he wasn't man enough for the relationship he wanted to have with her. From being emotionally passive, to struggling ...
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Would You Rather: Couples Edition | Loyalty, Love & Red Flags
Hey Besties! We’re keeping it light on this week’s episode… but trust us, the next few weeks are about to get heavy.So before we dive into all of that, we decided to switch it up and ask each other some very serious “Would You Rather” q...
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WHY Women Need Higher Standards in bed ft. Lady Kay
Hey Besties! We sat down with pro-sex content creator Lady K to talk about how Women experience pleasure, shame, ego, submission, dominance, and what happens when a Woman stops centering men and starts centering herself in the bedroom.T...
I Was Married To A P*RN ADDICT | HO4 Listener Letter Episode
You read that title right! BUCKLE UP BESTIES WE'RE IN FOR A WILD RIDE! As promised, we're back with another listener letter straight from our HO4 (Hanging Out 4ever, duh lol) communityThis e...
The Truth About KRISTY & DESMOND SCOTT
OK BESTIES WE NEED TO HAVE A TALK..The news of Kristy and Desmonds divorce is SHAKING the internet and we're here to clear the air and share the truth behind relationship content creators and the SIDE EFFECTS of MONETIZING your love life
Telling My Mom I'm Depressed ft Aja's Mom
Y'all know Aja is lowkey a crier. Her and her Mommy sit down in this episode to talk about Aja's childhood struggles with identity, self worth and depression. It's never easy talking about depression, let alone with your parents and even more s...
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A Very Naughty Christmas
Ho, ho, ho Besties! Welcome to our very first Christmas Special. We've swapped out Grant and Aja for Mr. & Mrs. Claus, and we get into in this episode sharing HOT questions and even HOTTER takes.Have we been naughty or nice this year? H...
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I Was His Sidechick, NOT His Girlfriend
WE'RE CELEBRATING HITTING 50K FOLLOWERS ON INTSTAGRAM!!!!We're honoring this milestone by reading listener letters from our Besties once again. This episode is truly a rollercoaster and not the kind you'd expect.Buckle up babies, ...
WHY we're SCARED to HAVE KIDS
How do folks just be having kids, getting pregnant and acting all non-chalant about it? Grant and I are SUPER CHALANT. We're both nervous of becoming parents, and we're both terrified of the actual birthing process and changing our lifestyle to...
What it's like DATING an ENTREPRENEUR
Ok, yall so some of you may know that back in March, Grant and I broke up because it felt like we couldn't get on the same page financially. But luckily we figured it out. In this EP we talk about dating as entrepreneurs and how money has playe...
JEALOUSY in your RELATIONSHIP
Is jealousy always wrong in a relationship? If you meet a PG SD who wants to fund you and your man's lifestyle, are y'all entertaining it? 👀 After a few funerals, when do they become considered family functions? 😭We get into all of it...
WHY you SHOULD date your BEST FRIEND
There’s something different about falling for your best friend-- but is it a good idea to date them? In this episode, we get into what makes dating your best friend so magnetic, and when comfort starts to blur the line between closeness and los...
BREAKING UP saved our RELATIONSHIP
Episode 25: We’re back!! We took a break from the podcast to work on our relationship and deal with some personal issues. And yes… we did break up! Watch and see how it was the best thing for our relationship.
The FRIEND ZONE is NOT REAL
Episode 23: Sorry to break it to ya, but the “friend zone” doesn’t exist—🤷🏾♀️🤷🏻♂️ Plus, why is it okay for men to chase beauty, but women get dragged for wanting financial security? That's a double standard 😬We’re unpacking all that and m...
HOW TO: Keep the ROMANCE ALIVE in Your Relationship
HAPPY VALENTINES DAY Y'ALL! To celebrate we did this episode on how to keep the romance alive in your relationship. We’re breaking down 15 solid tips to keep things fun, exciting, and giving you solid and honest advice to help you ...
Being HONEST about our BODY COUNT
Episode 22: Y'ALL in this week's episode we share some truths, SECRETS 🤫 and very controversial opinions 👀Are H03 phases important? Can personal trainers be trusted and How many bodies is TOO MANY?It's our first episode back from our li...
WHY we didn't BREAK UP
Episode 21: In this episode, we get into everything that has made our relationship work over the last 9 years, from genuinely liking each other to keeping things fresh and spicy. 🌶 We talk EVERYTHING on how to make YOUR relationship work.
HARDEST part of INTERRACIAL DATING
Episode 18: In this episode we talk about our experience as an interracial couple. We have been through it all! From having clashing cultural differences to recieving outside criticism and hate. For the first time on our podcast we dive deep in...