Running Man Self Regulation Skills Project
Understanding Stress, Anxiety, and Decision-Making: Unveiling Your Paleo-Caveperson Wiring
Explore the fascinating interplay of stress, anxiety, and pain on our ability to think, choose, and act in modern life through the lens of our paleo-caveperson wiring and survival programming.
Discover why we sometimes exhibit socially inappropriate behaviors under stress and find it challenging to make sound decisions in tense situations.
Gain insights from psychology, neuropsychology, physiology, sociology, biology, and social dynamics, explained in everyday language without overwhelming scientific jargon.
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Running Man Self Regulation Skills Project
How Shame, Guilt, and the Need to Belong Impact Your Life and Identity
Ep 97. Humans, like all animals, have evolved to live in groups for safety, security, and the opportunity to thrive. Our deep-rooted need for belonging—whether to a family, tribe, city, or modern corporation—has been crucial for survival and genetic legacy. According to evolutionary psychology, shame and guilt are powerful self-correcting mechanisms that have helped us maintain harmony within these groups. These emotions were developed to prevent actions that could lead to exile, thus enhancing our survival chances.
In today’s world, shame and guilt continue to play a role in regulating behavior, but for some, they can contribute to social anxieties that keep us seeking approval from the "in" group. While the need to belong is a natural part of our psyche, it can also result in a loss of individuality and autonomy. Individuals may compromise their values and morals to fit in, potentially facing a darker version of groupthink or mob mentality.
Maintaining your center and staying true to yourself is more important than ever in a world that pressures conformity. Be mindful of the impact of group dynamics, and make sure you're walking your own path in a way that serves your authenticity. Take care and walk well.