Marriage & Motherhood - How To Reconnect With Your Spouse After Kids
Motherhood changes everything, including your marriage.
If you’re a mom who feels stuck having the same arguments on repeat, disconnected from your partner, or like you’ve slipped into roommate mode filled with resentment and tension, you’re not alone and your relationship isn’t broken.
Welcome to The Marriage & Motherhood Podcast.
I’m Michelle Purta, mom of 3, marriage coach, and I help couples understand and shift the communication patterns that keep them stuck so they can rebuild connection, strengthen their partnership, and feel like an "us" again.
Each week, you’ll learn how to navigate marriage and motherhood with better communication, emotional awareness, and practical conflict resolution tools that actually work in real life.
We go beyond surface-level advice and focus on what’s really driving the disconnection like reactive cycles, emotional shutdown, miscommunication, and unresolved resentment.
This podcast is for couples who want to:
- break the cycle of repeating arguments
- communicate clearly without shutdowns or blowups
- resolve conflict in a way that builds connection instead of resentment
- move out of roommate mode and back into a connected partnership
You’ll learn the skills to shift your patterns, improve communication, and create a more connected, supportive marriage while you're knee deep in parenthood.
Because a strong relationship isn’t about avoiding conflict. It’s about knowing how to move through it together.
If you’re ready to stop having the same fight and start feeling like a team again, you’re in the right place.
Ready for deeper support? Learn more about marriage coaching here: https://michellepurta.as.me/clarity
Marriage & Motherhood - How To Reconnect With Your Spouse After Kids
Latest Episodes
Ep. 292 - The Skill That Changes Everything with Conflict In Your Marriage
Part 2 of the mini series: Why You Keep Having the Same Arguments and How to Actually Break the PatternConflict is inevitable in marriage.But arguing in circles, escalating every conversation, and walking away feeling more discon...
Ep. 291 - The Best Way Parents Can Keep Their Kids Safe with Francesca Douglass-Franco
Keeping your kids safe isn’t just about rules, it’s about your relationship with them.In this conversation, I got to chat with Child Safety Strategist, Francesca Douglass Franco to talk about what actually protects kids in today’s world....
Ep. 290 - How to Stop Marriage Conflict Before It Spirals
Part 1 of the mini series: Why You Keep Having the Same Arguments and How to Actually Break the PatternArguments don’t fall apart at the end. They fall apart in a moment you’re not noticing.If you’ve ever felt like your conversat...
Ep. 289 - The Midlife Marriage Wake-Up Call No One Talks About with Mikki Gardner
Midlife doesn’t ruin marriages. It reveals what’s been ignored.If you’ve ever looked at your relationship and thought“How did we get here?”or“Why does everything suddenly feel so hard?”You’re not alone and your marri...
Ep. 288 - Why You Keep Having The Same Fight On Repeat
Feel like you're constantly arguing with your partner? You’re not having different arguments, you’re actually stuck repeating the same pattern.If you feel like you and your partner keep going in circles… talking about the same things… a...