Marriage & Motherhood - How To Reconnect With Your Spouse After Kids
Motherhood changes everything, including your marriage.
If you’re a mom who feels stuck having the same arguments on repeat, disconnected from your partner, or like you’ve slipped into roommate mode filled with resentment and tension, you’re not alone and your relationship isn’t broken.
Welcome to The Marriage & Motherhood Podcast.
I’m Michelle Purta, mom of 3, marriage coach, and I help couples understand and shift the communication patterns that keep them stuck so they can rebuild connection, strengthen their partnership, and feel like an "us" again.
Each week, you’ll learn how to navigate marriage and motherhood with better communication, emotional awareness, and practical conflict resolution tools that actually work in real life.
We go beyond surface-level advice and focus on what’s really driving the disconnection like reactive cycles, emotional shutdown, miscommunication, and unresolved resentment.
This podcast is for couples who want to:
- break the cycle of repeating arguments
- communicate clearly without shutdowns or blowups
- resolve conflict in a way that builds connection instead of resentment
- move out of roommate mode and back into a connected partnership
You’ll learn the skills to shift your patterns, improve communication, and create a more connected, supportive marriage while you're knee deep in parenthood.
Because a strong relationship isn’t about avoiding conflict. It’s about knowing how to move through it together.
If you’re ready to stop having the same fight and start feeling like a team again, you’re in the right place.
Ready for deeper support? Learn more about marriage coaching here: https://michellepurta.as.me/clarity
Marriage & Motherhood - How To Reconnect With Your Spouse After Kids
Ep. 202 - The Busy Mom's Guide To Doing It All with Hannah Morgan
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Feeling overwhelmed by the endless to-do list, mental load, and invisible labor of motherhood? You’re not alone—and you don’t have to keep doing it all on your own. In this episode, I’m joined by Hannah Morgan, founder of Heron House Management, to dive deep into practical, system-based solutions that help moms stop burning out and start building support—both inside and outside the home.
We’re talking about real strategies for sharing the load, how to get your partner more involved without micromanaging, involving your kids and why outsourcing household management is not a luxury—it’s a smart move.
Tune in to hear us chat about:
- Why doing everything yourself isn’t sustainable—or necessary
- How to shift from manager to true co-CEO of your household
- Systems and tools that help reduce stress and increase productivity at home
- How hiring a virtual house manager can help you reclaim your time and energy
- What to do when your partner says, “Just give me a list”
- The truth about the dollar value of the invisible work you’re already doing
Whether you’re a working mom, stay-at-home mom, or somewhere in between, this episode will show you how to offload the mental load so you can stop surviving and start thriving.
🔗 Resources Mentioned: Fair Play Method
Connect with Hannah:
Website: Heron House Management
Podcast: De-Stress the Nest
IG: @heronhousemanagement
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Additional Resources:
- Ready to put a stop to the arguments in your marriage? Watch this free masterclass - The #1 Conversation Married Couples Need To Have (But Aren't)
- Want to handle conflict with more confidence? Download this free workbook!
- Wanna make communication feel easy and stop feeling like roommates so you can bring back the romance and excitement into your marriage? Learn more about how coaching here!