The Marriage & Motherhood Podcast

Ep. 226 - Bad Marriage Advice You Should Stop Following with Monica Tanner

Michelle Purta, Monica Tanner Episode 226

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Bad marriage advice is everywhere—and following it could be quietly sabotaging your relationship.

In this episode of The Marriage & Motherhood Podcast, I’m joined by fellow relationship coach Monica Tanner to debunk some of the most common (and harmful) pieces of advice couples are told. From the well-meaning but destructive “Never go to bed angry” to the seemingly logical “Compromise is the key to happiness,” we unpack why these ideas don’t actually work—and what to do instead.

We also explore:

  • How not addressing issues at night can actually help your marriage
  • Why compromise often leads to resentment instead of connection
  • What healthy collaboration and curiosity look like in real-life marriages
  • The hidden ways moms, especially, abandon themselves in the name of being “good wives” or “good mothers”
  • How Monica’s new book helps couples break free from myths that keep them stuck

If you’ve ever felt like you were doing everything “right” but still weren’t happy in your marriage, this conversation will open your eyes to what’s really going on—and how to change it.

Connect with Monica:

Website: www.monicatanner.com

IG: @monitalksmarriage

Grab her new book here!

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