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Marriage & Motherhood - How To Reconnect With Your Spouse After Kids
Motherhood changes everything... including your marriage.
If you’re a mom who feels disconnected from your husband, stuck in roommate mode, or exhausted by the constant tension, miscommunication, or emotional distance after kids, this podcast is for you.
Join Marriage Coach Michelle Purta each week to learn how to strengthen your marriage without waiting until the kids are grown. Each episode offers practical communication tools, mindset shifts, and real conversations that help you rebuild emotional connection, navigate conflict without escalation, and feel like true partners again...not just co-parents managing a household.
This show is especially for you if you want to:
• Communicate clearly without shutdowns or blow-ups
• Reduce resentment and mental load in motherhood and marriage
• Reconnect emotionally and rebuild intimacy after kids
• Create a healthier, more connected marriage in the middle of busy family life
Having a strong marriage is all about learning the right skills, not about being perfect.
This podcast is your weekly reminder that you don’t have to choose between being a great mom and having a deeply connected marriage.
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Marriage & Motherhood - How To Reconnect With Your Spouse After Kids
Ep. 241 - Falling Out Of Love And What It Really Means
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So many couples start wondering, “How did we get here?” once kids enter the picture. It’s not that the love disappeared — it’s that it got deprioritized. Parenthood changes everything. Between sleepless nights, endless to-dos, and the emotional load of raising kids, your relationship can easily slip into “roommate mode.”
In this episode, I break down what’s really happening when love feels distant — and how to start nurturing it again in simple, sustainable ways. I share why parenthood naturally shifts your focus, how couples drift from lovers to co-parenting partners, and how to rebuild emotional intimacy through micro-moments of connection.
If you’ve ever found yourself saying, “We used to be so in love — what happened?” this episode will help you see that you haven’t lost love… you’ve just stopped putting in the work to grow it.
You’ll learn:
- Why love fades when it’s not nurtured (and how to revive it)
- The shift from romantic partners to logistical roommates
- Simple ways to reconnect without overhauling your life
- Why intentional connection matters more than big gestures
It’s never too late to realign with your priorities — or each other.
Resources Mentioned:
- Marriage 360 Review
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