The Marriage & Motherhood Podcast
If you're a mama whose marriage has become increasingly disconnected and difficult after kids, this podcast is for you. Join host Michelle Purta each week as she has open and honest conversations about what it takes to have a successful and healthy marriage focusing on healthy communication and deep connection.
While mom life can feel rewarding, it can also feel like losing yourself. You trade in your self care for self sacrifice and your marriage takes a backseat or no seat at all as you juggle this crazy life where it feels like all you do is chores, take care of the kids, and work.
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The Marriage & Motherhood Podcast
Ep. 241 - Falling Out Of Love And What It Really Means
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So many couples start wondering, “How did we get here?” once kids enter the picture. It’s not that the love disappeared — it’s that it got deprioritized. Parenthood changes everything. Between sleepless nights, endless to-dos, and the emotional load of raising kids, your relationship can easily slip into “roommate mode.”
In this episode, I break down what’s really happening when love feels distant — and how to start nurturing it again in simple, sustainable ways. I share why parenthood naturally shifts your focus, how couples drift from lovers to co-parenting partners, and how to rebuild emotional intimacy through micro-moments of connection.
If you’ve ever found yourself saying, “We used to be so in love — what happened?” this episode will help you see that you haven’t lost love… you’ve just stopped putting in the work to grow it.
You’ll learn:
- Why love fades when it’s not nurtured (and how to revive it)
- The shift from romantic partners to logistical roommates
- Simple ways to reconnect without overhauling your life
- Why intentional connection matters more than big gestures
It’s never too late to realign with your priorities — or each other.
Resources Mentioned:
- Marriage 360 Review
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