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Ep. 266 - Awkward Date Nights? Here’s What’s Really Missing

Michelle Purta Episode 266

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Going on regular dates but still feeling emotionally disconnected?
You’re not imagining it—and you’re not doing anything wrong.

In this episode, I explain why spending more time together doesn’t automatically rebuild connection, intimacy, or closeness in your marriage—and why date nights often fall flat when deeper issues haven’t been addressed.

You’ll learn:

- The foundation of real connection (it's not time together)
- How unresolved resentment and communication breakdowns affect your dates
- How connection is built through everyday “micro-moments,” not grand gestures
- What actually needs to happen before date nights can feel enjoyable again

If you’ve ever thought, “We’re doing the right things… so why doesn’t it feel better?” this episode will help you understand what’s really going on—and what to focus on instead.

If you’re ready to stop guessing and start building real connection, book a Clarity Call to explore what support could look like for your marriage.

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