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Ep. 282 - What Actually Changes Your Marriage

Michelle Purta Episode 282

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The fastest way to change your marriage is not by getting your partner to change.

If your marriage has been feeling heavy, tense, or stuck in the same arguments on repeat… you’re not alone.

Most couples believe things will finally get better when their partner starts communicating differently, showing up more, or meeting their needs.

But here’s the truth: waiting for your partner to go first keeps you stuck.

In this episode, we’re diving into the powerful ripple effect that happens when you start showing up differently — and how that shift naturally inspires your partner to do the same.

Inside this episode, you’ll learn:

- Why focusing on your partner’s behavior keeps you stuck
- What’s actually happening underneath resentment and disconnection
- How your energy, communication, and self-care impact your relationship dynamic
- Why “good begets more good” in marriage
- A simple but powerful reflection to assess how you’re showing up as a partner

Ready to reconnect with your partner and create a more hopeful and positive future with each other? Schedule a clarity call so we can chat about how marriage coaching can help you!

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