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Amber Hitchcock Season 3 Episode 27

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This week on It’s Okay, I’m catching you up on my Fourth of July weekend before we dive into some of the biggest stories making headlines.📰

We talk about the tragic violence that unfolded over the holiday weekend in Chicago—and why I said, “I told you so,” when it comes to the conversations we’ve been having about public safety and preventing these tragedies. We also discuss the mass shooting plot that was stopped before it could happen in Henderson, giving us a chance to recognize the people whose quick actions may have saved lives.🚔

Then we turn to the shocking developments involving former youth pastor David Vadamir, who was charged in connection with the death of his wife in Utah before later dying by suicide while in custody at the Clark County Detention Center in Nevada. We’ll break down what we know and reflect on the many things involved.👀

As always, we’ll talk through the headlines, share a few laughs where we can, and remind ourselves that even in a world that often feels overwhelming, there is still hope, still good people, and still reasons to keep moving forward.🙏

So grab your favorite drink, settle in, and remember… it’s okay.💖

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Hey, welcome back to It's Okay, the podcast. I know, I know. If you listened to the previous episode and I mentioned that the July 4th episode was going to be released around that time, totally wasn't. Um, yeah, a lot of things came up. I also definitely wanted to enjoy my July 4th weekend, all of it leading up into, so I didn't, yeah, no, record the episode. But I also was like, I didn't release the Juneteenth episode on Juneteenth, and so like releasing July 4th on July 4th, like I mean, you know, was it listen? It's just my mind. I don't know. So I am going to be releasing the episode tomorrow. I still don't know the title, I'm still figuring that out as well. So if you're listening to this episode right now, today, hey, how's it going? Uh yeah, that episode's gonna be released tomorrow. You'll know about it. If you get the notifications, you'll see it, it'll be there. We'll figure out the title. But that episode is coming out tomorrow, y'all. It is going to be a banger to me. Yes, it's so good, it's so good. All of it. Also, too. I spent like hours researching about July 4th, 1776, and so much before then. I was like, I need to connect the dots. This event happened, but you know, this happened before, this connected this day, and like all of these just amazing, amazing things. So, yeah, we are gonna be having so much fun tomorrow with that episode. I'm lit. I want to talk about it, it's gonna be fun. So be on the lookout for that episode. But in today's episode, Monday, first, let's talk about July 4th, right? So much fun. Got in the pool, had some good barbecue. My um, my aunt made this amazing like cabbage meatball sausage, like ooey goodness with like potato. It was like kind of like a junk pot cabbage situation, if you will, but so good, so flavorful. Love it. Had some jalapeno cream cheese peppers. I think there was like turkey sausage in there, but also I don't, it was so good. All of it was just so good. The food was amazing, family was amazing. Dancing, I was on the floor the whole night. It was amazing. I love it. Family, the vibes, all of it. So amazing. Hope your uh July 4th weekend was really great. Celebrate, didn't celebrate, just hope you had a great weekend overall. Hope you're having a good Monday. Mine, I'm prepped, ready to go. I was like, I already got my lunch at work tomorrow. I don't have to worry about lunch. I pre-prepped my meal prep. Let me say that again for the smart people in the back. I pre-prepped my meal prep. So instead of me having everything assembled and and its bowls and its Tupperware ready to go, I've got like the assembly ready. So we're doing chicken tacos for meal prep for lunch instead of the salads, the Chipotle salad. I think I talked about that in the previous episode, how I make the salad and the dressing and all that. Very good, but I'm also kind of getting a little burnt out of making it. You know, it's not hard to do, but it's just dealing with the kale, washing it, peeling it, and it's just a lot. So I was like, I just want to do something a little easier where you just make some chicken and you got veggies and cheese, and bam, there you go, tortillas and good. And I'm gonna do guacamole on the side. So I've got all of that pretty much like set to the side and like prepped. I've got my chicken, like marinated and seasoned and ready to go. All you do is cook it and then assemble, and yeah, that's what we've got. But lunch ready for tomorrow. So my Monday, I think it's gonna be okay, bright and early, great, love it. Okay, moving on, you guys. Las Vegas right now. It's not crazy, but there is this one. Well, it's a little crazy right now. So this is from two last weekend, right? June 27th, right? Metro police and the FBI find a mass shooter attempter and stops the whole plan. I am just feeling safe and just like, thank you, because yeah, it's a lot of things going on. Before this even happened, I kid you not. I was having a thought, I take public transportation. You know, there are a such thing as terrorist attacks. They had this huge one. I think in Canada, we saw it on video, it's just blatant. The police officer gets scared by someone who's running, shoots them. It's not even the killer, she shoots a civilian. Like, all of that is so scary. And then I think what was it earlier this year, or it may have been last year, the shooting in Texas, where the guy was wearing the Alu Akbar shirt or whatever. It was all just very crazy at the bars. Like, what people are living life and having a good time, and someone comes out blazing. What is happening in this world? So, no, this here, very spot on the police. I absolutely love it. They have a Facebook page. Uh, follow. They loving it. No. So a woman called around 9:30 a.m. on June 27th last weekend, right? Before July 4th weekend, to police about her ex. So her ex apparently steals her car. And in the car are numerous loaded guns, right? Now, this is my thing. She steals the car, and I guess she put the guns in there because I'm like, I I'm I'm pretty sure the girlfriend didn't have all these guns, but also there is no clarification on that from for me at least. But her ex, yes, steals the car. There are numerous guns in the car, it's on the LV MPD, Las Vegas Metro Police Department's Facebook page. All the guns. I was like, I mean, she was gonna light something up. But before I get all the way into this, what I was originally getting to, I take public transportation. Yes, I had a crazy thought, right? You've got all these terrorist attacks. What if I'm just at the bus stop, right? And like there is someone who is just shooting at people at the bus stop. Literally, shoe and then drive. Like, which car is it coming from? There's so many cars passing by. We don't know. And before they're caught, they would have hit at least like 10. However, I mean, numerous. Am I giving someone ideas? Oh my god, no. We're we're gonna edit that out. I don't know. I don't know what's going on. My mind is crazy. I had that thought I did. So, and then this happened. I I'm rambling, let's get back into it. So, has all the guns in the car, but she, I guess, has a call with the ex, but tells the ex that she is going to commit suicide by cop. Okay, and is going to commit a mass shooting. So, mass shoot, the cops come, they kill her. That was intentional, you know. This is what is going on, right? The police receive the call, they track the stolen car with um location tracking, the car, GPS, all that good stuff, and track her to a like local um garage compart uh garage department. I don't know um if I said department, like you know, a garage, parking garage, excuse me. A parking garage. So she um parks at like I think a casino attached garage, or either it's across the street, but one of those situations. I know it was next to a casino. I think like the sunrise casino, something like that, something like that. Um, I don't know if they reported it on here. Um, center, including um, this case is powerful reminding that public safety depends on strong partnership and timely reporting. Absolutely. But when they find her, right, she has all the guns in the car. They report the police, detectives, 22 firearms and hundreds of rounds of ammunition, 30 additional firearms from the suspect's residence, including automatic weapons, AR-style rifles equipped with grenade launchers, suppressors, and thousands of rounds of ammunition. Absolutely crazy. Yeah, when you look at the images of what they had, like it's like war. Like she is you should she should be trying to fight in the war. And I like, what are you doing? Absolutely crazy. All of the uh materials that she had, and then the rounds of ammunition, just that alone lined up absolutely crazy. It was a lot, a lot of rounds, so like at least over 40 rounds, and that's just like the things that they're held in. There's many bullets in the rounds, so it's like yeah, very crazy. Now, they have already released the body cam footage and the footage of the arrest, and that imagery is very crazy. So I guess they were negotiating with her because it's like a suicide situation. At this point, she had not killed civilians, us on the streets of Vegas, but she was, you know, now at this point, death by suicide of cops. She could have potentially shot a cop for no reason in order to get herself killed because she didn't wasn't, you know, brave enough, if you will, to do it herself. I mean, that's not brave. For God forgive the verbiage on that, but you know what I mean. Like, coward. You you, you know, kill someone so that you because you know that they're gonna, you know, blaze you up, and then you're, you know. So it's just absolutely tragic. I don't know what on earth. I guess maybe more details will come about as to what was going on. Like, okay, did you break up with the ex? And now the woman, I mean, these are two women, right? Woman calls on her ex. This is a woman I didn't specify potentially. I guess I may have been saying, you know, her pronouns, but uh didn't specify um, yeah, a woman this was, and her name is Alison. I forgot her last name, but Alison, yeah. Um seems to be a white woman. But I don't know if the ex in her like broke up and she's like devastated or like what was going on in her life that warranted this. But yes, she was arrested in Henderson, she was not killed. The takedown was, I guess they were negotiating with her, and she asked for a water, and one of the police officers were bringing her a water, dropped the water, bam, pulled her out of the car. She was okay, okay, okay. Like it was just all very crazy, but they did um abdue her. I think that's the word I would use, and the streets of Nevada are safe from that situation. Um, very crazy, but like in regards to that, that was before July 4th weekend. We come up on July 4th weekend. I did mention in the last episode about um the Juneteenth violence that occurred in Chicago and would report back on Monday if there were shootings in Chicago. And I'm fortunately I was right. Uh they there were shootings in um Chicago leading all the way up into July July 4th weekend, in July 4th weekend, um, on July 4th, like yeah, it was definitely a thing, and it wasn't a massacre. Um, the reports that I saw, they were not like related to July 4th in any way. Um, but yeah, people were shot and killed. So this is the reporting that I saw, right? Um, by CBS News out of Chicago. Um, this is by Jeremy Bizzle, right? He's a producer at the um CBS News Chicago um um publication, um, news station. So um his reportings were how you as a reporter or um, I guess researcher, analyst, or whatever, you call different, you know, places and things and you gather their reports of things. So he called the police department, gathered all their reports from July 3rd up until July 4th, 12 a.m. So this is what he um combined out of their reportings. Two dead, 18 hurt in Chicago shootings during 4th of July weekend, according to the Chicago Police Department. So they like I said, these weren't related to July 4th in any way. Like it wasn't like a July 4th party was happening and there was a shootout or anything like that that I saw. It was just like various different like involvements, like this one. The victim suffered a gunshot wound to the um to the left leg, and this was um during the first shooting at the extended holiday weekend. So going into the weekend, this is kind of like how they analyzed the report um as the start of the shootings, I guess, and tracked it all the way up into then. Um July 5th is a whole new day. Don't know if any you probably could go, I mean, I don't know. Sounds like it's always occurring. And we're gonna we're gonna switch, we're gonna, we're gonna get into it. Sounds like it's always occurring, but officers responded to a call of a person shot just before 10 p.m. 10 p.m. in the 7200 block of South Green Street. Don't know where that's at or what that even looks like. The streets don't know. Um, said the victim, a 31-year-old man, was outside when an unknown man approached on foot, pulled out a gun, and fired a shot before fleeing on foot. The victim suffered a gunshot wound, like I said, to the left leg. He was treated on scene by Chicago fire department personnel and taken to the University of Chicago Medical Center in good condition. Now, whenever I first read that, I was like, what on earth? An unknown gunman, and so I'm like, I don't I genuinely don't know what this area looks like. I'm like, is this gang related? Like, what even is happening with that type of a situation? That's very scary. Um, another report uh that was issued was an 18-year-old man was walking into 600 6000th block of South Indiana Avenue around 837 p.m. Now this was on Friday um when an unknown person who police said was part of a group pulled out a gun and shot the victims and shot in the victim's direction. The victim fled from the group and was later found by responding officers. The victim suffered a gunshot wound to the rear and was taken to the University of Chicago Hospital Hospital in fair condition. No other injuries were reported. So that was on 8 37 p.m. on Friday. Very crazy. Um so those were kind of like the situations that were going on. So now uh on Saturday, this is on Saturday at 12 15 a.m. So on July 4th, 1215 a.m. a 19-year-old man was walking outside in the 1600 block of West 1. This I'm not used to streets like this. I'm like Sahara Street, uh uh Desert End Street, like all these numbers. It's like it's I mean, it's not even it's a is it a ad? I guess these are the addresses, but they're just so like Chicago y. So many numbers. I'm I'm illiterate, okay? I admit it. Um 16th 1600 block of West 108th place when someone came up to him and shot him. What the victim suffered gunshot wounds throughout the body and was taken to Advocate Chrysler Medical Center in Oak Loan. In Oak Lone, oh, excuse me, in Oaklawn, the shooter fled north on nearby Ashland Avenue. At 148 a.m., a 30-year-old man was found on the sidewalk in the 400th block of West Van Buren Street with gunshot wounds throughout his body. He was taken to Stronger Hospital of Cook County in critical condition and was later pronounced dead at the hospital at 125 a.m. Like this is literally the police reports. So police are responding to these things, these people are being shot, and police are being called, and it's just so crazy. I I mean a 17-year-old girl was outside in the 300th block, three or excuse me, three eight hundredth block of West May Paul Avenue when she was shot once in the chest, she was taken to Stronger Hospital of Cook County in critical condition. What on earth is happening in Chicago? And look, at the end of this report, it is noted, unless otherwise noted, no arrests were made in the above incidents. So police responded to all of these shootings, and no one is ever found for the shooting. So it's just straight murderers in Chicago. Like out of all of these shootings right here, there's literally two dead, eighteen hurt. I don't, I didn't even calculate how many shootings there were. I only read a couple of those. How many shootings there were alone in this report of the reports that were found from the um Chicago police department from July 3rd to July 5th? Um to have no one found. Yeah, there's just straight murderers on the street. Absolutely. Crazy. Yeah. And I bring that back to um Las Vegas. This July 4th weekend, we had no shootings. None. There was just none in this city. None. Zero. Zero. Absolutely none. There were no shootings of people. No one died. Nothing. So there is a there's a difference there. So I'm like, what on earth? I'm like, I mean, it very well could have occurred. But the police did stop that. They were on top of it. Um, this other situation here with um Chicago, I just am like, what on earth? You mean to tell me um there are killings that are being stopped, and you have some that are never being found. It's just um very surreal the whole situation. I said, what on earth? And I for some reason knew I was gonna be right. Like I did kind of really think that there would be like a July 4th party massacre, but it was just individual shootings. But regardless, like that's still very, very crazy. Now I'm pretty much going over like discussions that were in the previous Monday's episode. I talked about a lot, but didn't really discuss anything. And yeah, like this is um, this is what's going on. I mentioned in the previous episode the new Mississippi fraud scandal that is going down. So the other one was uh, I think almost $80 million that they were doing out of the like uh food stamps fraud. This one here is uh recent out of June of this year as well. A lot of things going down in June for America, right? 11 people indicted and 12.3 million dollars combined for Mississippi Medicaid fraud scheme. All different men and women in different cities now. This isn't coming out of uh one city, it's throughout Mississippi, out of Jackson, Yazoo City, Hattersburg, Olive Branch, Laurel, etc. The list of cities actually goes on and on. But for fraudulent billing, wire fraud, and false documents to defraud the government. The attorney general, right, is building the case amongst these various peoples. Um, their names are all on the news reports. I'm pretty sure you could probably find them on Facebook, search them out of Mississippi, they're on there probably. Now, the attorney general, um Lynn Fitch, she's been the attorney general of Mississippi since 2020. Um, I think she was the treasurer of Mississippi from 2012 to 2020, if I'm not mistaken, but I'd never heard of her. But she um said, I am proud to partner with President Trump to protect taxpayer dollars and ensure that money meant to help those in need is not stolen from safety net programs. So this woman is doing all she can do to save those taxpayer dollars from these fraud schemes. Now, um, I thought that that was very, very crazy. Now, it's um, I mean, the people, yeah, 11 people. It was that, and I don't know um the races or the ethnicities of these folks. Um all of the names of them, like I said, are posted online on various news publications. I wasn't gonna write each one down or even get the list. I just was like, this is just yeah, very crazy. It came across my feed um pretty much almost the same day that I saw the mass uh shooter attempter uh stopping. Um I was yeah, sitting with my dad watching um, I think we were watching Kill Tony. Or were we watching, I think we may have been watching a movie or something. It really doesn't matter. Me and my dad were chilling, okay. Um he brought over dinner. I cooked it, it was lit. It was so good, actually. Such an amazing time. And I'm sitting there and I just happen to look at my phone and I'm like mass shooting. And I was like, Henderson, I said, what on earth? Now I used to live in Henderson, or I would say, I would say near Henderson. I could like drive 30 minutes and be and be I'm 30 minutes. I could like drive three minutes, I should preference, I should um preference. And um and would be in Henderson, so like lived like right there. I even worked in Henderson, but yeah, like very there. I don't live there now, but yeah, it just was like, what on earth? And then like I have family there, so like this person is crazy, and yeah, like what is happening um on the streets, but that attempt was stopped. But yeah, just happened to see that on my phone, and uh same thing with this. I happened to see on my phone, like freaking Mississippi fraud. I was like, okay, here we go yet again, but it wasn't as much as the um um food stamps fraud that they had going on. I said, Oh my gosh. Now see, this one is even it's a little bit of a better situation scheme, I should say, because they fraudulently did billing and different things like that in regards to medical fraud, like food stamps fraud. They were just literally like not, I mean, they weren't even they were just stealing the money. Like it wasn't even like you guys were using it to, I don't even know. It was like given to organizations that weren't even doing anything. I didn't even see any reports that like the organization claimed to have fed this many Mississippians, like it was just like nothing. Like, what are you talking about? I don't, I don't know. It just doesn't even make sense. One of them was like, I it sounded like a school. I'm like, I I'm not even gonna get back all into it. Go listen to the Mississippi fraud scandal episode if you really want to know all about that and those millions that were stolen. Um, but on to other news coming out of Las Vegas, right? Mass shooting. We talked about in the previous episode the previous or a former youth pastor, right, uh that was being prosecuted out of Utah for the death of his wife. Originally ruled an accident in 2006, right? I said that this man was being held at the Clark County jail on his crimes. Now, his crimes included the death of his wife, but it was also for insurance fraud, right? So I'm just now finding out that he had an insurance policy or a life insurance, yeah, a life insurance policy for his wife. I'm sure she had one for him as well, but to kill her and collect the money is different than whether they die of natural causes and or cancer and or car accident, and you collect, you know, different. But um collected half a million dollars when she died and a whole host of other insurance frauds, including insurance fraud with a car. I'm like, how do you even do insurance fraud with a car? I'm pretty I yeah, it's doable, but it was just, yeah, he is a fraudulent man that we see. Now, the wife actually is very beautiful. She's so pretty. I'm like, what was going on in their marriage? I guess we necessarily won't find out because this man has committed suicide in the Clark County jail. Police officers found him. He was uh beware of sensitive um language suicide. He was hung. He hung himself. And now there will be no justice for his wife, and there really will be no further like investigation into this person. They've found what they've found up until this point, but now that he is deceased, unless there is like an investigative work, they will no longer be able to use, you know, taxpayer dollars to investigate this man for at least like what their marriage was like, you know, like what you know what made you kill your wife. So this is allegedly, right? But also he is dead now. So we can say that he did it because he can't prosecute me like on frost. So I just think that that is very crazy. I was gonna do, you know, an update on the episode. I wanted to see had he been expedited, extradited, whatever that verbiage is, to Utah for these crimes, but he committed suicide, so they did not even, he didn't even leave the Clark County jail. I thought that that was absolutely crazy to find out. So in the previous episode, I mentioned he was having an affair. He was a youth pastor having an affair with one of the members of the church. She was an underage young lady, she was 14 years old at the time of their affair. He started with grooming and gifts and being very touchy-feely. Now, um, at the time of this, this person was, you know, underage, but now they just label her as like SH. I don't know if those are her actual initials or if it's just like a um anonymous name or whatever, but they, you know, speak with her to get more details because she is now, you know, of age. And she said, you know, she broke things off with him four years later. She did, not him, she did. So she was 18 at the time of breaking things off with him. And the day that she did that, the next day, he and his wife went to Utah. And they went to the Zion National Park, and this is a park in Utah that has um a trail, and that trail is Angel's Landing that we mentioned, and his wife died, and they it was labeled an accident. But two years later, I guess someone from the church went to police with information that I guess was on their heart, and they wanted to, you know, speak about him and his behavior and different things like that. He was actually fired from the church that he was working at for um throwing parties for the underage children and serving alcohol and like letting them gamble. I just thought that that was um very, very crazy, very crazy to hear. The name of the church um was uh I don't know, Dynamere's death uh Metropolitan Police, medical, self-sustained injuries, hanging himself, having in custody. Now the church that he was involved in is the new song Christian Church in Las Vegas. Um it is still an ongoing church. Now, the woman who I was speaking about that he was having an affair with who was an underage minor, SH, said that, you know, she joined the church around 14 years old. Now, this is absolutely crazy. Um, at the center of the case is a woman identified in court documents, like I said, as SH. You know, she says that um she went to New Song Christian Church in uh Las Vegas at the round, you know, 18 years of age. Um, the relationship began sexual when she turned 16. And the first time was at Vadimere's, David Vadimere's um cabin in Bryanhead, Utah. So he was all up in Utah uh with just sickness. Um, so he was 25 and she was 16 and um that was going on. He was still married to his wife, Bernadette, and it was years of that secrecy. I'm finding out just now, you know, that um he purchased her a cell phone and even her mother didn't know about it. And also, um, he, you know, used to take her to um by the hour hotels um and at the church after hours, and they would do things um according to documents. Um when SH turned 18, sometime in 2004, 20 or 2005, um, Vladimir told her to move out of her mother's house, um, and he paid her rent for more than a year so they would have a private place to meet. Um he was still married to Bernadette. So yeah, this was just a very crazy man out of Las Vegas doing these things, and he was found out and ended his life before things could actually ever even, you know, happen towards him. Um, I just think that all of that is very crazy. I was not expecting to hear that that David Vadimir, the former pastor out of Las Vegas, um at the Christian church, would have done these heinous acts. First of all, killing his well, no, first of all, first of all, having an affair with his wife with an underage child and then kill his wife. Now, for me, I just think it's still so crazy. Instead of just leaving your wife and being a dishonorable man, you then kill your wife and still be a dishonorable man. He got away with it though, for like 20 years. They started investigating him. This was in like 2006, so technology was there, but it wasn't there there, right? I don't even know. I don't think the first iPhone was invented in 2006. They were still using phones with buttons on them. So to track that data, like he got her a cell phone, but like, you know, like what was that like? Did they have to like get the the the transcripts of those calls from like how did like how were they able to find out this information? Of course, they had to interview people, so this is word of mouth, but they actually need physical evidence, and it sounds like they got it, you know? And 20 years later is absolutely crazy, and for him to kill himself, it's like you did it, but also it's so crazy to find out that he was having an affair with an underage girl at the church. Um, the prosecutors out of Las Vegas didn't try to prosecute him for that, which I think is strange. He should have been prosecuted for that, most definitely. And those charges may have been coming. Um, actually, now that you think about it, you know. Um, but I mean, he's ended his life at this point. So, yeah, to end your life, you did it. To, I mean, you know, if you didn't do it, you would not have done that. To end your life over not doing something, absolutely not. So you were found out. He knew he was going down, and he was, I believe, 49 years old at the time of his death, his suicide. Very crazy out of Nevada. A lot of lot of lot of crazies going on. Um, but that is what Monday's episode is going to consist of. Very dark. The conversations that were done. Mass shootings, freaking death and murder, and relationship deaths. But yeah, I just like very crazy. He literally could have just ended things with his wife. Like, I mean, I don't know what type of property situation they would what they had, cars, or like what's in the bank accounts, and he wasn't willing to lose it, or he just was like, I, you know, am tired of this or whatever, and I'm going to do this so that I can get the insurance money. Um, I really, I really don't know because I'm like, I mean, yeah, if he divorces her, I know you don't get any insurance money. And but I don't know. So I just still think it's just, it's absolutely just very crazy. Like Chris Watts, you know, I know that that situation we did find out that they were in enormous amounts of debt. And I don't even know if he, I would have to relook at the case. He killed her and he was having an affair. Um, to my knowledge, with David Vadimir, the pastor, the girl who he was doing this with, um when she was like 18-ish years old, uh, ended things with him. So I know that someone reported that comment that he made to police about how he couldn't be with, you know, this person he was having an affair with unless his wife was dead. So, you know, you end things with this or the girl ends things with you and then you kill your wife. So it's like, did you do that as well so that you could be with her? But it doesn't sound like they were together. It was that affair that they had for those years, and I didn't see in any reports that they continued after his wife's death. He was throwing parties for underage kids, getting them drunk, and got fired from the church for doing that. And then I don't know what his life looked like after that, but like what he did for work or what was going on. I mean, he got insurance money, so he may have been living off a half a mil. Who knows? I don't, but yeah, with Chris Watts, I mean, he killed his wife, but I don't know if he was to receive insurance off of her, but she would have to have been so no, that right there was it's just crazy. The idea of just killing someone all together, but especially someone who you have been with for years. You Chris with your wife for years, you guys have children. I don't know if David and Bernadette, Bernadette Vladimir had children. I don't believe they did. I didn't see any reports that they had children together. So just but regardless, you are together for years. So he was having an affair with this girl for four years. He was with his wife for four years. Was he with her for years before that? I don't know how long they were married. I didn't there is, I'm pretty sure there is a report on that, but the reports that I'm seeing are just primarily about the affair. It's not even really about Bernadette's life, it's about this man and what he is an evil to society of. But regardless of all of this crazy stuff, there are so many wins to celebrate. Life is still so beautiful, so amazing. I hope you see it that way as well. Tough is tough, but beautiful is beautiful too. That was kind of really cheesy and cranny. I don't know where I was going with that. Anyway, anyway, anyway. I hope you guys are having an amazing Monday. Be on the lookout for tomorrow's episode. We are discussing the American Revolution, we are discussing our department and independence from the British. And yes, black men and white men fought for this cause, slaves and freemen, and not only men who also just bought their freedom. It was just regular African men who were sailing around the country amongst the whites, doing deals with them, trading. We're gonna hear about all of it, and I hope you're excited to hear about it because it's exciting stuff, and I absolutely love it. Be on the lookout for tomorrow's episode. Still no title, but you'll know it when you see it. I am so excited. Again, I hope you guys are staying well and staying positive, and just remember it's okay.