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Be Better.
This podcast is for successful men who feel reactive or disconnected at home and want to become calm, confident, grounded leaders.
I’m Harrison Orr — husband, father, men's coach and creator of The Grounded Man Method — and I share the tools that helped me break Nice Guy patterns, regulate my nervous system, and rebuild connection in my marriage.
Each episode gives you practical wisdom, deep conversations, and proven frameworks to help you show up stronger for yourself, your wife, and your kids.
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Be Better.
The Truth About Leading Your Relationship - She Won’t Just Hand You the Reins — Why Leading as a Man Requires Earning It l EP. 42 l
You said you wanted to lead your wife, your relationship, your family — good.
But don’t expect her to hand you the reins without a test.
In this episode, I unpack the mistake most men make when stepping into their masculine: they expect leadership, respect, and intimacy to just be handed over because they’ve “woken up.” But leadership isn’t given — it’s earned. And every moment of pushback is the exact opportunity to prove you’re ready for it.
Expect resistance. Expect the test. And learn to stay grounded, calm, and connected — even when you're being challenged.
If you want her trust, her respect, her desire — it starts with your breath, your presence, and your leadership.
In this episode:
- Why your leadership must be earned, not assumed
- The hidden reason she challenges you when you step up
- How failing her tests kills polarity
- Why nervous system regulation is your greatest leadership tool
- A step-by-step breathwork practice to hold frame in the heat
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