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Be Better.
This podcast is for successful men who feel reactive or disconnected at home and want to become calm, confident, grounded leaders.
I’m Harrison Orr — husband, father, men's coach and creator of The Grounded Man Method — and I share the tools that helped me break Nice Guy patterns, regulate my nervous system, and rebuild connection in my marriage.
Each episode gives you practical wisdom, deep conversations, and proven frameworks to help you show up stronger for yourself, your wife, and your kids.
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Be Better.
Why Being a Nice Guy Isn’t Enough (and What She’s Actually Waiting For) l EP. 43 l
Most men think being nice, helpful, and easygoing will make their wife love them more.
But here’s the truth:
She doesn’t want you to do more.
She wants you to be more — more decisive, more grounded, more of a man she can trust to lead.
In this episode, I pull back the curtain on why “nice guys” are unknowingly killing their polarity, trust, and intimacy — and what to do instead.
If you’ve felt the confusion of doing everything “right” but still not getting the respect or desire you crave in your relationship... this episode is your wake-up call.
I break down:
- Why your people-pleasing is eroding her trust
- The myth of emotional suppression and “stoic” leadership
- How to earn your own self-respect (so others do too)
- The single fastest way to rebuild polarity in your relationship
- Why she tests you — and how to pass without crumbling
If you’re ready to stop trying to be liked and start being respected — this one is for you.
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